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He was my bestfriend for two and a half years.. but now.. email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 88/100. AikaruJ (115)   ranked 855 out of 12,298 in friend11 months ago

I have a bestfriend for two and a half years. We spend a lot of time together telling each other stories. Way back 2 years, He always looks for me to tell me about the girl that he really wants. When we're together, he always talks about that particular girl. Until such time that i developed intimate feelings towards Him. I tried to hide it but I know that He knows about my feelings.

One day, when i saw him at school, he wasn't talking to me anymore. He wouldn't even look at me. He only talked to me after almost a month.

I decided to move on because i thought he couldn't return my feelings towards Him. Turns out I was right. After almost 4 months, He had a girlfriend. His girlfriend was the girl that he really wanted.

At that moment, i don't know whether to be happy for him or to be sad because He doesn't Love me back.

After 7 months that they spent with each other, they broke up. He came to me and told me everything that have happened. I was sad because he was hurt.

After several months, he confessed to me that He really has feelings for me from the very start but he was afraid to commit mistakes so he didn't have the courage to tell me about it.

And now i'm very happy because I have him in my life, not just as my boyfriend but still as my bestfriend..=)

 
 
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mssnow (4138) response was accepted on 3/31/2009.
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tags:  best friend, best friends, relationships, start
 
1. myLot reputation of 99/100. andalond (3388)   ranked 14 out of 12,298 in friend   11 months ago

So does that mean that you two are together now? If so I am so happy for you because you have lived and learn to have a best friend for a person you can honestly share life with.


myLot reputation of 88/100. AikaruJ (115)   ranked 855 out of 12,298 in friend  11 months ago

yes we're together now. I'm also really happy because as you said, I found a person who i can honestly share my life with.

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2. myLot reputation of 96/100. mssnow (4138)   ranked 327 out of 12,298 in friend   11 months ago

Some times it pays to be patient. I am glad you two found each other that is wonderful I had a best friend too but he has moved on. he doesnt
talk to me anymore. I just figure if its meant to be it will if not it wont. Even as friends. You two were meant to be.


myLot reputation of 96/100. mssnow (4138)   ranked 327 out of 12,298 in friend  8 months ago

Thanks for best response


myLot reputation of 88/100. AikaruJ (115)   ranked 855 out of 12,298 in friend  8 months ago

you're welcome.. happy mylotting

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3. myLot reputation of 67/100. jennifercrowe (526)   ranked 2,258 out of 12,298 in friend   11 months ago

Sometimes it is best to wait. You will end up with what you want most of the time. Congrats to you as well.

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4. Cryptid (63)   11 months ago

Personally I wouldnt have tolerated that as its like being 2nd best as he left you behind to chase after someone he preferred more.Then when that failed he came back to you almost as a backup plan after the first plan had failed.

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5. myLot reputation of 97/100. ersmommy1 (10329)   ranked 459 out of 12,298 in friend   11 months ago

Just another case of wishes coming true. Nice that you guys finally have each other. It is special. Hopefully things will continue to work out.

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6. myLot reputation of 97/100. rmuxagirl (6598)   ranked 2,577 out of 12,298 in friend   11 months ago

I am glad you have someone in your life who is not only your boyfriend but also your best friend. I'm glad his actions were because of his feelings instead of something else. Glad you are happy my friend.

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7. myLot reputation of 77/100. swtpareek (314)   ranked 2,055 out of 12,298 in friend   8 months ago

Hey! I am so happy for you! I am one of the lucky ones too to have my best friend turn into my boyfriend. In my case there was no third person invloved. We had feelings for each other and we confessed and now we are together as bf-gf since 1 2 years... happy


myLot reputation of 88/100. AikaruJ (115)   ranked 855 out of 12,298 in friend  8 months ago

wow! thats great!

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8. myLot reputation of 79/100. ulqu1orra (243)   ranked 4,789 out of 12,298 in friend   8 months ago

hehehe so this is the story you tell me about on neobux.
Well just want to say good luck to both of you and your relationship. hope it will last your life time so the both of you will be happy for the rest of your lives right cause I know that you really love each other.


myLot reputation of 88/100. AikaruJ (115)   ranked 855 out of 12,298 in friend  8 months ago

yeah this was the story i was teeling you.. hehe.. i know we'll last.. hehe.. i know this because the choice is up to us.. and we choose to be together forever..=)

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