Three typical errors of Chinese women after they get married  

1:marry him,misunderstanding and not to marry his family.
This idea is wrong,to marry a man,not to marry him,but to marry his growth trajectory and all his.

2:he loves me,married will spoil me accept my transformation
Men accept it or not,and love,and his life track and habits.Therefore,to marry him,must know where he comes from.To appreciate her eyes from his body extension to his background,that is his family background.
3:since married,my husband should belong to our family
He also belong to his parents,relatives and friends.So,he must give them some of his love and time. Not only such,your love also get along with him together extended to them.