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Do women get attracted (more) to men with a "BAD BOY" image?  email this discussion to a friend?

zorlone (89)   ranked 5,831 out of 19,211 in relationships 4 years ago

Are you the type who gets attracted to guys with the "BAD BOY" image? Or you know women of the type? Why??? Do you feel that the raging hormones and macho moves are more attractive? Or you think you can do to change them?
Would be looking forward to your thoughts...

 

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1. myLot reputation of 77/100. barbie84 (5346)   4 years ago

yes i have to admit i have always been attracted to the bad boys as you put it, i dont realy know why other than they are more fun than the boring mommys boys, i married the last one and 8 years later we are still together, life is never boring with him around


zorlone (89)   ranked 5,831 out of 19,211 in relationships  4 years ago

So, for you it's the excitement? Maybe your husband isn't such a bad boy after all....


zorlone (89)   ranked 5,831 out of 19,211 in relationships  4 years ago

I apologize for the second to the last sentence, it was supposed to be "Or you think you can do 'SOMETHING' to change them?"

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2. myLot reputation of 4/100. autunno (252)   ranked 16,221 out of 19,211 in relationships   4 years ago

Im so opposite of the typical stereo type i sometimes wonder if I belong to a diffrent genre..I do not like muscle guys,or the popular boy..When I was in HighSchool..I went for the smart type.Always had crushes on the good boys.I was a bit wild so I guess to see the other side was interesting to me..


zorlone (89)   ranked 5,831 out of 19,211 in relationships  4 years ago

Let's see, one for the bad boys and one for the good boys... looks promising. So, for you, opposites attract. hmm... i guess I don't have to change my image after all. b-)


zorlone (89)   ranked 5,831 out of 19,211 in relationships  4 years ago

I apologize for the second to the last sentence. It was supposed to be "Or you think you can do 'SOMETHING' to change them?"

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3. maeella70 (97)   4 years ago

As my eyes set upon your topic I smiled cause it knocked me.
Boy I'm down to earth with guys with a bad boy image.I never like men who are not macho type.I mean my type is one who looks a real man! Not a lady like.That's why I am very in love with my husband because of that reason.Real man looking does not mean he is really bad in attitude.And these are my words I found them attractive.!!!


zorlone (89)   ranked 5,831 out of 19,211 in relationships  4 years ago

I apologize for the second to the last sentence. It was supposed to be "Or you think you can do 'SOMETHING' to change them?"
About what you said, men are real men with how they look and how they act. We don't have to be reckless nor thoughtless about or actions.
Thanks for your thoughts!!!

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4. myLot reputation of 93/100. mercuryman3a (2289)   ranked 251 out of 19,211 in relationships   4 years ago

I think some girls do run after the bad boy types, as they get excited by all the wicked things that these guys do. it gives them a thrill to be in the company of a guy who moves around with a pistol and plays hide and seek with the police. i guess it is the sme with us men. We too love the bad girl types. The bad girl image exictes us and wants us to try and have control over them. The wild and the wicked girls are really sexy.


zorlone (89)   ranked 5,831 out of 19,211 in relationships  4 years ago

Yeah man! That's telling them...

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5. myLot reputation of 93/100. nympha687 (738)   ranked 1,014 out of 19,211 in relationships   4 years ago

I would say,Yes. There's something about this kind of guy that makes you feel safe. The feeling of security for women is very important. Another reason I think is that women always expect men to take the lead. If the man is too nice, that could be a turn off.


zorlone (89)   ranked 5,831 out of 19,211 in relationships  4 years ago

Hmm... Very good point! But i think that's what every man wants for his girl. To protect her and take the lead. :)

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6. wraithhime (60)   ranked 12,004 out of 19,211 in relationships   4 years ago

No, they just are plainly good looking, and they have that confidence that comes naturally that is very attractive.

not all bad boy imaged guy is a real bad boy, its just that women often like people or guys that are not overly obsessive about their looks.


Sometimes the more ovely clean, formally dressed the guy, the more he is very uptight inside.


zorlone (89)   ranked 5,831 out of 19,211 in relationships  4 years ago

The image and the confidence are true manly assets. But narcissism even just a bit is a kind of a turn off to other women. I guess when a guy openly looks and admires himself in the mirror would probably "eww" you. LOL
Good comment!

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7. myLot reputation of 88/100. oraclemv (2492)   4 years ago

My husband says this is true for all women but I disagree. I think it's a different attraction for different women. I know women like that but not personally as my friends, just acquaintances. None of my personal friends have the bad boy boyfriend. I am assuming you mean bad boy like in and out of jail, no job and does drugs? Those are the only kind of bad boys I think of when you say bad boy.


zorlone (89)   ranked 5,831 out of 19,211 in relationships  4 years ago

You are right on the money! That was what I was thinking about when I wrote this! The extreme bad boys... Those who cut class, do drugs, bully kids, rob a bank. Then add the image of an unkept guy with a beard and mustache, plus the muscles and tattoos of a convict... That is the literal bad boy image.

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8. minnielai (19)   ranked 18,995 out of 19,211 in relationships   4 years ago

absolutely!! but the guy has to be real 'bad boy' look, not wannabe... like if a guy wearing a b*tch slapper (I believe it is how to call the sleeveless shirt??!!), he has to have nicely tone muscle and flat abs.... I have seen far too many with fat arms and big guts.... it really is disgusting....:)


zorlone (89)   ranked 5,831 out of 19,211 in relationships  4 years ago

He he he! Those are shall we say, "impostors!"
Thanks! Happy mylotting to you!

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9. myLot reputation of 91/100. Jezebella (1423)   ranked 526 out of 19,211 in relationships   4 years ago

The man I am dating right now tries to have the bad boy image and part of that is what drew me to him, but I also learned that deep down he is just a teddy bear and he is so sweet and wonderful. I Think sometimes there is a good guy under that bad boy image.


zorlone (89)   ranked 5,831 out of 19,211 in relationships  4 years ago

Careful. We guys do have that "teddy bear spot." We don't want to show it to everyone except to the ones we love. :) Thanks!

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10. myLot reputation of 68/100. taggedskate (201)   ranked 5,683 out of 19,211 in relationships   4 years ago

I perfer that "bad boy" image. I always had. Granted, choosing that image you sometimes get the attitude and characteristics that go with it. I like it because they're just my "style" I guess. I like the baggy jeans and baggy t-shirts with the sidewards ball cap. It's just a turn on for me. I love it when they can do certain stunts with their snowboard or skateboard or if they have a car, they can drive. There are some out there that think they can drive, but just can't. It all depends on their car too. That goes with the image. The more they have on their car, the better. About their macho moves...I don't know if that's so much a turn on or not. Sometimes. It all depends on how they carry themselves. And I like the way that they talk too. They just have a different way of approaching a girl and talking to them then a regular guy does. I guess you can see, "bad boys" are my type of guy.


zorlone (89)   ranked 5,831 out of 19,211 in relationships  4 years ago

Well said taggedskate!

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