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myLot reputation of 84/100. sona22 (926) 4 years ago

My sister is passing a bad time and we are very anxious about the time she is passing by. She is suffering from mental pressure. The marriage was about to settle. The groom's elder sister and mother came to finalize the date. Both of us settled the date on 27th Feb'2009. But on the next date the groom over telephone accused my sister for her behavior. It was all unexpected. Te blamed her about our standard of living (my sister live in well condition and she is a primary school teacher). The elder sister of the groom is the colleague of my sister and first she (the colleague) proposed the relation. Everything was so unexpected that we succumbed to sorrow. Lately the woman asked my brother to meet her. We have lost our parents in the year 1990 & 1991. When my brother informed her that our brother-in-law is our guardian and she knows it very well then it is not possible for my brother to meet her. Only my husband can meet her. She refused. When I asked my husband what might be the cause of ignoring him, he started to laugh. The picture behind the become clear. As far my husbands statement, the woman offered my husband for a relation. She is widow and younger than me and living with her boy. My husband politely denied. I was again surprised. But a conversion over telephone between them make it clear that my husband is correct. The relation can be materialize only if my husband accept her proposal. How terrible situation. Myloters could you imagine my situation. I am proud of my husband. But my sweet sister has become a victim of her colleagues ill intention. And the most surprising fact is that my husband never seen the woman before the proposal.

 

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1. myLot reputation of 40/100. daddyfree (113)   4 years ago

good thing that you found out about your husband but the bad thing is that you found out about your siter's terrible thing to do. there's a good thing and a bad thing...


myLot reputation of 84/100. sona22 (926)  4 years ago

Yes, my faith on my husband has become more strong. But my sisters mental condition is giving us agony. How a woman can do this? The wife of my brother told me that when he went to that woman's house with my husband and my brother for the first time, the woman's behavior/ attitude changed very soon just after the dialogue with my husband. See requested my husband again and again to come another day for more discussion. But my husband politely declined the request and told that woman that as he would be very busy during the month for his office work and wold not be able to meet her very soon. My husband further request her to continue the dialogues over the marriage issue with my brother. If situation arise he might be contacted over telephone.

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2. myLot reputation of 91/100. djmarion (3399)   4 years ago

i can't imagine how bad the times your family's going through, i know how hard it is to experience such things and i understand how bad you feel for these things, its good that your husband remained faithful and stayed with your family no matter how he was seduced by that lady.

your sister must be very upset and we cannot blame her, the best thing you can do is to stay with her and be her confidante, a shoulder to cry on. cheer her up and make her forget those sad time, make her realize that he's not worth her tears and pains.

being in this situation is hard but it will show us some good things, it will bring our family close together.

May God bless you and your family.


myLot reputation of 84/100. sona22 (926)  4 years ago

Thanks for your reply. We are passing our hard times. One point is to mention that my husband always look after my sister as a daughter not as a sister-in-law. The things which is giving me more agony is my husbands mental situation. I came to learn from a close friend of my husband that the relation has broken for him is a matter of deep mental agony. He is not talking freely with my sister. It was a common thing that almost every night after returning from office he used to talk with her and our daughter. His present outlook is very good, but the unexpected thing is killing him. The friend and colleague also said me that he is doing very common mistakes in his duty, which is nothing but unexpected.

More over that lady called him again over telephone today when he was at office. And asked to meet her tomorrow. He again refused to meet. I have never seen such a woman. She is become daring.

For my sister, she came to learn the reason behind it. Last night she told my husband that she believe him (my husband). She also told my husband that why he was feeling uneasy. When all know him very well. When his character is beyond doubt.

I am only praying to god to overcome the bad time as early as possible.

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