Don't Tell ANYone!!  

yes i did it too.not along ago my best friends best friends and i has argument so i told to my best friend that i dont like her best friend and of course i told her not to tell her.

i do tell that to my partner as if i donot say ,he may sometimes tellit to his parents or sister,ofhandedly.but if i tell him not to tell anyone,i am sure ,it will remain a secret and noone would ever know abot it.

I normally share my personal things only with my hubby, not with my friends and yes...i do tell him not to tell anyone, even he does the same when he tells something to me, since we both have a close family, we both are quite afraid that we might share it with our family members

No I don't. I know he isn't going to tell.
He has said that to me before and than says it is a trust thing.
If you have to tell me not to say something than why tell me if you don't trust me.
That is what it feels like.
He doesn't do that a lot but when he does it makes me feel like crap.
One time he just says " Well, I don't know what you talk to your sister about".

That is a very sore subject with me.

I probably have done it, but you would have to tell me if i have done it lately since you are the person i tell all my dirty little secrets to. And i also know the only person you would tell is your hubby so it is kind of pointless for me to say it, if in fact i have said it.

I have told a secret to my husband before and he blabbed it to the wrong person. I was angry and my friend was upset because she didn't want the secret out. She said she wasn't mad at me and knew I would probably tell my husband. But when I said it is a secret, don't tell anyone, he totally didn't listen. My friend got pregnant and was rushing into marriage- she didn't want certain people to know until it was done.
I felt like an idiot and now I don't trust him to keep his mouth shut. It's rotten, but now I keep secrets from him!

You know you made me stop and think if I ever say this phrase. I think I say, "just between you and me" more. But, usually, I don't tell people too many things that I would be afraid to have them repeat, just from bad experiences in sharing too much.

On the receiving end, I have heard this phrase all the time. i don't know if it's my personality or my quiet nature, but I have had people who I really haven't known too long tell me some really serious stuff. I of course keep their secret, it's not mine to tell anyone.