Do you still find yourself thinking about your EX?

Yes you are right their are many good times shared between us and sometimes I do remember by ex and also the good or bad memories strikes the mind sometimes

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hi bubbles,
not that often, just thinking if what my life would be if i'm still with him or if i marry him. but life is good to me! i should say i was happy that we did not make it with my ex. we have to move on and look forward. past is past!

I do think about an ex of mine, everytime I see a firetruck go by. My last ex boyfriend is such a sweet man, I still love him, but out of compassion, as it should be. Actually, he was the one that opened my eyes to get away from my exhusband. It's funny because my last marriage started because of him, and ended with him. And...my ex still wanted to give that man's name to our youngest child. Strange. But, what pops into my mind? How loving and caring he was to me. I remember how his voice calmed me down and lifted my spirits. Why did we break up? It wasn't so much the long distance, but our age difference. I wanted him to life and be with someone around his age and I felt I was holding him down. Perhaps I wasn't, but it was what I thought to be best at the time.

My current boyfriend knows and understands all of this. But, my heart goes to the soldier, not the fire fighter...but it doesn't mean I don't respect either of them anymore or any less than the other when it comes to duty.

*Pleiades

yes I still do think about my ex boyfriend even though we are not together for 7 years now. I still remember the good times and of course the bad times which made us break up. But I know one thing. He did not appreciate my feelings of love and care for him but he was the love of my life. I will never forget him as long as I live. I am married to someone else now but that does not mean that my old love is dead.

i do believe it is rather healthy to think about your EX, it all depends and the porpuse you give to those thoughts, if you are comparing your curent partner (what a waste of time), if you are still wallowing about him ( what for), but if you keep them in mind just to understand (objectively) how much you have grown since that relationship, that could hepl your self steem!!!

well, i do sometimes even though i know im happy with the person im with right now it never stops me from thinking of my ex ever once in a while, he was my bestfriend then became my boyfriend and for some reason i've already forgotten we broke up and sometimes i still feel bitter about it..lol.

Well, I still thinking of my ex sometimes. I was just with him for 3 years living together. I always think the good times we've shared and I miss it sometimes.

yes, before i met him again last year. he was my first love and first boyfriend and our memories are really hard to forget. we have good times of course but our bad times affected me much and unforgotten. but after exchanging emails which started last year of february, before we meet again and gave him my forgiveness, i never thought of him again. he was such a gentleman but a serious person, disciplinarian and super conservative. an opposite person of my husband of 18 years.

There are moments that a memory of my exes pops up to my head and these are the thinking of what is he doing at present, if how is he and his family, or where is he now. The thinking is mainly about his present life not more on what we had before - whether good memories or bad. I had moved on and have my present relationship, so i consider my past relationships as over.