Close Relationships
By lampar
@lampar (7584)
United States
February 28, 2009 6:01pm CST
Hi, friends, care to share your way of remaining intimate relationship with your love one or spouse or Harmonia relationship with your relative or family members? I am interested to learn from what the expert has to say and advice he or she can give to all.
Thank for sharing , friends!
1 response
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
1 Mar 09
i am no expert.... i dont even have a good relationship with my dad... he left my mom years and years ago, when i was growing he is always abroad or out of the house. me nad my mom are close and i am close too with my brothers. i have two sister but we are not that close. we do talk but not that close. i dont have friends for i just am inside the house with my mom when i was single and just spend my time playing video games. i only go out when i am going to work, run errands and go to practise. i had a few unsucessful relationship maybe because i dont know how to handle one. but when i met my wife.... i dont know what really happened to me. she brings out the best of me. i went my way out just to be with her and to make her happy. i became a whole new man. i am still the grouchy old me but i can control this grouchyness already. i can say that i have a good relationship with my wife for we talk about all of it. what is our plans and what we like and dont like. so i can not still say that i am an expert i just enjoy what i have right now.... a good relationship with my wife and my child.
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@lampar (7584)
• United States
1 Mar 09
So you keep it up by maintaining open communication all the time and keep no secret between yourself and your wife. Hope i sum it out right from your comment . Yes i believe the right woman who you choose to be the life partner of you is very important factor in your future self development, sometime it can break or make a man into a legend , hahahahaha...
Thank for the comment, my friend; happy mylotting!
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
1 Mar 09
when we were in the stage of getting to know each other.... i only not got the chance to know her better but i got the chance to know me better. there is a side of me that just came out from nowhere. i found myself talking a lot, i found myself willing to go out a lot, i found myself smilling a lot. they call me ogre.... well now they call me shrek for he is a popular ogre. its kind of me and my swap thing.... but now i am more of a person who is fun and not the usual me and me alone. so thats why i said that my wife brings out the best in me. maybe i became more boring for i was hurt when my dad was not really around for us.... plus my brother who was so close to me went to london.... maybe i no longer wanted to get attached to anybody... its me and myself. well of course with my mom but she has chores and work to do too so mainly it was just me. my wife plus now our three year old child has bring out the best in me. i was happy when i found the new me.
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@lampar (7584)
• United States
1 Mar 09
That is good to hear that. It shows that your marriage is bringing plenty of positive changes in you and you are in a very constructive relationship, so what you need to do is keep it going and strengthen your relationship further like let's say spend more time together, going out , exercise ,or doing house chores together. It is obvious your yen and her yin are well in phase with each other. (positive and negative energy .) that make you feel in perfect harmony with self and people around you.
