What will you do if you were taken for granted by your partner?
By n30wing
@n30wing (4767)
Philippines
5 responses
@SKYRYNE (100)
• Philippines
23 Mar 09
Yes...! When we got a bad conversation with my BF. sometimes he taken for granted my personality but i never misinterpret it on the other side I apply it as my challenge in life. I answer him back to watch his word and look at her self. Someday i will be on the higher..(hehehehe) good answer...!
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
24 Mar 09
Well no one deserves to be treated bad, no one is perfect. If you love someone you will always think and want the best to see to that person not making her/him self esteem low. That is why your there is to make her/him feel better. Not taken for granted, not feeling her/him low. Take it a challenge yes, but not all the time he can do that to you. Prove him his wrong, but teach him how to treat a woman. Have a nice day to you!
@NIECIE21 (365)
• United States
23 Mar 09
I have been in relationships in the past where my boyfriend would take advantage of me. I sopke up several time (and his family and friends also told him what he was doing) but he never tried to change. Even though I loved the guy, I had to cut ties with him when i realized that he did not respect me nor would he ever respect me.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
24 Mar 09
Hi NIECIE21, you did the right thing. You deserve a better guy. His a jerk! When you love someone you should always makes her important and always first in your list. You don't have to hurt her and show that actions. He just care what he feels. No one can understand that kind of person. Anyway you take care! Have a nice day to you!
@dorisday1971 (5657)
• Philippines
23 Mar 09
Being married for seven years, I have quite learn to overcome this. When we were just newly married, there were countless time when I felt being taken for granted. There were even times when I cried. I am glad my husband always assured me that I am very important to him and he loves me much.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
24 Mar 09
I think it really happens to everyone. Specially when your partner has also have their own priorities and they forget you for a while. I hate the feeling if she took me for granted cause she's always number one in my list. Usually if it happens I tell her what I feel, and she hugs me and say I am sorry, but do love you so much, and that makes me smile. Anyway no one is perfect it's just how we handle it and understand it. Anyway have a nice day to you dorisday! God bless!
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
23 Mar 09
if that happened i will demand for attention. i need to have our OUR TIME, har har har. we are married for six years now and i cansay the only time that my wife was not talking to me was when she was sleeping after giving birth. she under went Csection and she was very tired. but she always give time to me even she is busy with the household and with our child.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
24 Mar 09
Well I do that also se7enthbird I demand for attention. But I think it really happens when they forget us for a while. Sometimes my fiancee has also her priorities, and taken me for granted. Anyway she is always first on my list. She is the most precious to me. But when I tell her what I feel, she hugs me and tell me sorry, and it makes me smile. She just tells me I love you always and your in my heart even I forgot you for a while. Have a nice day to you!
@pavan4568 (122)
• India
23 Mar 09
I absolutely agree with you, relationship will be stable only if there is a good understanding between 2 of them. If i went wrong, she has the right to object and vice versa. i always make a point to say it to my partner to know her actions if they are hurting me and always her to do the same.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
24 Mar 09
I think you should always be open to your partner what you feel to work things out, then just letting it to your self only. When I tell her about it, she hugs me, and say sorry about it, as long as she is a ware of her actions and accept that she forgotten me for a while that is enough. I think it happens to all relationship! Anyway have a nice day to you!
