someone wants me to be his gf/penfriend???...

@mz_Ira (1090)
Philippines
March 27, 2009 10:51am CST
I finally managed to login in Ciao with the help of our fellow mylotter.. My earnings was still the same... it looks all alright to me, nothing worng with my profile, settings and earnings... It caught my attention though, this guy left me a message in my inbox saying "PLZZZZZ!!!!!!!BE MY GIRLFRIENDBE MY PENFRIENDTHIS IS MY MAIL ME xxxxxxxxxxxx" are Net relationships happening in ciao as well? Have you encountered this before? What would you say to the person? would you ignore or tell him something?
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@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
27 Mar 09
Oh that's good for u.. Finally u are able to log in to your ciao account.. hehe ^_^ As for that MSG, it's up to u to decide what u wanna do about that.. However, dun take it too seriously when it come to this things, for they might be fooling around only.. Or maybe, they just wanna try their luck online.. Whatever it is, it's ok to start of with frenz, and as time goes by, u will be able to know how far the friendship can go, and if it's possible to turn into a relationship then ^_^
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@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
28 Mar 09
Well, u are not that bad after all ^_^ Maybe after her, u will be the next in line to meet someone whom wants u to be his gf/penfriend ^_^
@mz_Ira (1090)
• Philippines
29 Mar 09
hahah.. hey you two, didnt see this conversation you have made.. hahha... well hmmm kun2349 is right you migh never know, maybe tomorrow or later someone would just leave you a message asking you to be friends with him... Better to be friend with a guy first then if things are good as you both think then--- go for it!... Long Distance relationships actually are romantic as I see it however it takes a lot of trust for a couple... As for that person who left me a message, Its no big deal really, I just kinda feel awkward people leaving me messages like that.. Besides Im happy with my man
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@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
29 Mar 09
Sonia, or maybe sonic.. hehe ^_^ I'm sure when that happens to u, u will be so happy that u just wanna share and i'm bound to be around to share everyone's happiness.. lol =D Well, casper is cute ya, and maybe u can change your avatar to sonic's gf instead.. hehe ^_^ Mz_ira, long distance relationship are never easy and trust is something that's hard to define even.. If there's a choice to choose, never opt for long distance relationship because it's hard to maintain as well ^_^ For your case, it never hurts to get to know more friends as it might even motivate your man to be more pro active in things ^_^ haha
@dolphin2406 (1224)
• Poland
27 Mar 09
If it were me I would reply in a polite manner saying no thanks, unless you want to become friends or girlfriend with this person. You can also start sending mails or chatting in a friendly way if you want a new friend. But from a person saying PLEASE to someone he doesn't know, well I get some doubts. So better be careful mz_Ira. You don't know who that person is, nor from which country and even if it is a man or woman. I have heard of many scams and cheats from internet chatting, so be careful. Happy mylotting
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@sirrob (4108)
• Philippines
27 Mar 09
That depends on what country that member came from and if the English language is fluent or not. You just have to understand that they might be referring to a woman friend when they say about girlfriend and that it suppose to be two word. Yet, because of this circumstances we might mis-understood them for what they really want to have or in their intentions. I don't want to be mean here to those members that English is their second or third language. I am not saying as well that I am fluent in English and that it is my first language yet I am able to grasp what it is.
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@sweetyethot (1737)
• China
29 Mar 09
So,are you sure you dont know this guy?I mean it could be someone who likes me for a long time but doesnt have the gut to tell you.lol Check it out first.May I ask are you single or not?If you are single now,net relationship is a way to build real relationship.Cant you take that?lol Good luck!
@mz_Ira (1090)
• Philippines
29 Mar 09
Nah i dont know this guy. He has a photo though, hmmm maybe he's somewhere in middle east.. Anyways, no i am not single.. How about you? have you ever encounter a situation like this/
• China
28 Apr 09
To tell you the truth,it happened to me once.Its along story.You know,it nearly worked.We arent in touch anymore.
@GAUCI123 (1042)
• Malta
28 Mar 09
I am a member of don't messagaoi and sometimes I recieve such messages, however if I am not interested I just ignore the message and don't respond back.