Family or Job, which is more important?

@navonly (901)
India
March 31, 2009 7:07am CST
I really value my Family a lot, and everything in this world for me is my Family. I work for them, I live for them. So as I said, I work for them, what should I do, if your office boss is not ready to give you a leave even if you are the only son or daughter of your mother and your mother is in hospital? I saw an employee in my office, whose mother got a fracture in her leg and the employee was not able to come to office for 3 days without taking any proper leave. Further her mom got serious, and he asked for 5 months leave, but his boss started blaming him, with he being unprofessional, and gave him the option to leave the job instead of giving him 5 months of leave. The guy left the job and decided to stay with her mother, until she is back to home. Whats your saying in this matter? what will you do?
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6 responses
@cuttyrish (3264)
• United States
31 Mar 09
i value family more than job.. a job is not important without a family.. if you just work, work and work, your purpose in life is not fulfilled, because you do not have a family to share your success.. even if your job or work is hard, if you have a family with you, you will conquer everything...
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@navonly (901)
• India
31 Mar 09
yups!! that's the truth of the life. Everything can be done for Family, but everything cant be done for JOB.
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@elsoft12 (1821)
• India
31 Mar 09
Of course Family will be the priority if I have to choose between family and anything else in the world.If I lose a job I can find another in a matter of time.If a job is restrict me from being with my family when I am needed the most,I will happily quit the job.
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@navonly (901)
• India
31 Mar 09
You said it right, even I'll do the same.
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• India
31 Mar 09
ya of course family is more to me than my job , i will definitely leave this kind of jobs for the only who i love , its hard decisions but u can get more jobs but u cant get ur dear once again . wht will u do in such hard cases , pm me to .
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@navonly (901)
• India
31 Mar 09
well, its not that tough to think about dear friend. You said it right, even I'll leave the job. Am earning for them, if they wont be in my life, what will I do of those earnings?
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@liviurus (190)
• Romania
31 Mar 09
OF COURSE FAMILY! And if boss can't get it, then the hell with him, you can find a proper job anytime, he won't find so easy the right employee... It happened to me, but in the end boss apologized for being a jerk...happy ending
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@navonly (901)
• India
31 Mar 09
Wow! did your boss really apologized you? I don't think that employee's boss will ever apologize. Am sure that the boss will choose his business first then will think of his mother.
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@navonly (901)
• India
31 Mar 09
may be your boss was good, if you ask the same thing to my boss he'll say, "for me work is first".
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@liviurus (190)
• Romania
31 Mar 09
he did, i kinda told him that he has a family too and he must be very careful cos it might happen to him.
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@vjsinduja (1031)
• Sri Lanka
31 Mar 09
If the employee has asked leave for a month or less than that, Then of course the boss could leave order for the employee. If its for 5 months, who will take charge of his post. Most people go for permanent jobs. No one would like to work for just 5 months. In that case The boss finds it difficulty. If I was the employee, I would sacrifice the job for my mum like wise If I was the boss, I would have also asked that employee to resign the job.
@navonly (901)
• India
31 Mar 09
you are right, but he should explain the employee the reason, and just not be rude.
• Lithuania
30 Jul 09
for me the family is most important. a job you can find other at any time. but if somebody from my family in a hospital and not very sirious i do not leave a job. but if i now that can die at any moment or need a permanent nursing than i do not care what my boss will tell i will go to a hospital