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myLot reputation of 93/100. anneshirley (1135)   ranked 1,147 out of 37,922 in life8 months ago

That is the line from my student and she is just 14 years old. Whenever I ask her how is she, she would simply reply me with a smile. She doesn't open up to me so I really don't know her reason for saying those words over and over again. There is nothing wrong in her family background and she have friends. She is not a loner but I really can't reach her deep inside. I am troubled by her words because I know her capacity. I tried hanging out with her but still, I am clueless on her problems. What do you think should I do to help her?

 
 
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pergammano (1947) response was accepted on 7/27/2009.
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1. baboongila (32)   ranked 30,142 out of 37,922 in life   8 months ago

It's about time dude, if she not open to you right now maybe there's some reason for her to do that. maybe she want to watch your reaction for first so she can make a decision for herself whether you are the right person to open her heart or not..

just give her your positive think always,, keep happy..

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2. myLot reputation of 97/100. pergammano (1947)   ranked 2,260 out of 37,922 in life   8 months ago

I think you are doing the best you can, by always being there for her...and one day, by some miracle, a word that may trigger her response, she will open up to you, as the old expression "still waters run deep"...and I admire you for recognizing that something is not quite right! Actually, remember you are only seeing into her family, what they want you to see....something serious, is troubling her....and I wonder if you should discuss this with the School Councillor, as possibly she is terribly desperate inside, and whatever is troubling her comes with some form of shame (that will denigrade her or her family) if outed! I would be so afraid, that there is some form of abuse, somewhere! This problem merits a lot of thought, and delicate handling! And congratulations to you for being so sensitive! Cheers!


myLot reputation of 93/100. anneshirley (1135)   ranked 1,147 out of 37,922 in life  8 months ago

The fact that she said those words to me, I know she trust me already but maybe not 100% and yes, I am really very concerned about her especially now that she will be promoted and I will not be part of her studies anymore. I do hope I settle this before the new school year open.


myLot reputation of 97/100. pergammano (1947)   ranked 2,260 out of 37,922 in life  4 months ago

First, please let me "thank you" for the best response, I truly do appreciate it, dear friend! Secondly, I truly hope that this sensitive issue is settled, as it seems she truly respected you! Have a great summer! Cheers!

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3. myLot reputation of 97/100. poohgal (2931)   ranked 267 out of 37,922 in life   8 months ago

I personally think it's best to leave her alone and support her secretly. She's at the rebellious stage and she probably thinks it's cool to be depressed about everything in life. It's pretty common for teenagers to think that way. Also, you may think there's nothing wrong in her life. The truth is, there may be something wrong (or something only she thinks is wrong). If she choose not to reveal, you shouldn't force her as it will only make her turn away from you more. All you can do is to give her space and just be there when she needs you.


myLot reputation of 93/100. anneshirley (1135)   ranked 1,147 out of 37,922 in life  8 months ago

I guess you're right. She really is in a rebellious age right now and maybe her being too emotional just add to the problem. I will just stand in the sideline then...

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