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myLot reputation of 92/100. Ritchelle (2711)   ranked 395 out of 26,919 in people 3 years ago

for me it depends on the person who had shown the bad act. if i know that there is no possibility that this person is aware that such act is unacceptable then it's okay. however, if it is intentional then the offender would hear something bad especially if somebody gets offended too. angry

 

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1. myLot reputation of 91/100. jhenn22 (793)   ranked 3,648 out of 26,919 in people   3 years ago

i don't have the right not to forgive such person even he / she is bad as long as he / she is willing and sincere to ask for forgiveness. He / she admits that it is his / her fault and so i don't have no reason not to forgive him / her.

But sometimes it depends upon on the how it affects me. If he / she did really bad which make my life miserable i don't think i can easily give my forgiveness.


myLot reputation of 82/100. gunjanpri (496)   ranked 4,922 out of 26,919 in people  3 years ago

you are absolutely right dear. We have no authority to deny forgiveness to anybody. God is great! He creates everybody and takes care of all mistakes and good deeds. When he forgives us for doing anything wrong, how can we deny people from the same.

It does hurt, when somebody intentionally wrongs, cheats or harms me, but then I remember that even I sometime undeliberately commit mistakes, that might hurt people. As I always urge God to forgive me, so I pray to God to forgive them as well.

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2. myLot reputation of 94/100. eds282006 (1958)   3 years ago

If they intend to hurt you even if you did nothing to them then they should learn what they are going to learn.

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3. myLot reputation of 91/100. sudiptacallingu (8859)   ranked 754 out of 26,919 in people   3 years ago

There is no point really in not forgiving them. They are usually oblivious to their bad manners or are very insecure and use the bad manners as a shield against the outside world. In either case, its not our task to judge or rectify nor can we expect anything better from them. So the best would be to forgive, forget and move on

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4. myLot reputation of 69/100. kapil_poundarik (937)   ranked 8,986 out of 26,919 in people   3 years ago

well i don't look at people as such with bad manners ,and i don't bother it is a good thing when u don't mind what people do , it helps you to keep ur mind clean from garbage. If u bother about people then ur mind will be thinking about them the whole day and then u wont be able to concentrate properly.

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5. fangqin (82)   ranked 24,892 out of 26,919 in people   3 years ago

Everybody may have some bad manners. So I tends to ignore other's small bad habits. In this way, we may get on well.

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6. myLot reputation of 90/100. kent_help2smile (5080)   3 years ago

Frankly speaking, I don't tolerate people who has bad manners. I really really hate them.

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7. myLot reputation of 99/100. ratyz5 (3638)   ranked 1,834 out of 26,919 in people   3 years ago

Well, like what you have shared, if its an accident, I guess we could all forgive the mistake that he or she has made. It is an accident after all but, if its really intentional, to amuse themselves out of the expense of others, I guess it would be a long way before we should ever forgive them.

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8. myLot reputation of 87/100. piya84 (1923)   ranked 1,265 out of 26,919 in people   3 years ago

If person does it intentionally then its just pissed of me.angry.Some time people do it innocently and when they realize that they have done something wrong they feel sorry about it.That's oki.I can tolerate that much

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9. myLot reputation of 92/100. hartnsoul (511)   ranked 4,266 out of 26,919 in people   3 years ago

people often offend other people by their habits. they may not be aware that it is offending to others. so my answer is yes. i must forgive and will be willing to forgive people like these. it simply boils down to how they were brought up.

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