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myLot reputation of 95/100. thanusha85 (336)   ranked 508 out of 921 in relationships8 months ago

Hi everybody

I have a small problem here. I got in touch back with my ex a few months ago and was speaking to him like a friend. However, we would usually share the memories that we had when we were together. I met him online and was in relationship with him for 3 years. He was a christian guy and I am an indian girl. When I told my family members regarding this, they opposed my love but then I convinced them to accept it. However our relationship came to an end when he told me he cants go on with me because we were from different religion. The actual reason is, we were both studying and depended on our family financially. Thats was why he left me because he felt I felt I was a burden. I got to knopw the reason few months back when I got in touch with him. Now he says he loves me still because I am his first love. No doubt I still love him too because he is my first love too. However I just cant accept him because my family have lost confidence in him after what he have done. The truth is I love him alot. What am I suppose to do? Should I accept hima nd go against my family? Should I say no to him and go against my feelings?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 89/100. sanuanu (3901)   ranked 65 out of 921 in relationships   8 months ago

Think twice, after all I am no one to suggest you but...
You yourself are saying that he left you out because he felt that you were a burden to him. What is the guarantee that he won't do that again in future.

Life is not only based on love but also it needs faith and trust, which he lost from your side. I would call you a fool, if you choose to go with him. Think about your family, how can you convey your family that he is the best guy for you. Your father will ask you the same question which I just asked from you.

Think wisely but my suggestion is that be a friend with him but don't trust him to be your life time 'time pass'!`

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2. loveyoudt (40)   7 months ago

thanusha look, you are really blessed that you have the person whom you love, the answer to your question is not to go against your parents but make them realize that the person is good, build his confidence in their eyes, and you know how to do that as you are familier with likes and dislikes of your parents. Promise me that you will never again think of betraying your parents, they love you, and in the same time will try to gain him back. remember true heart always wins(may be i am a exception to this).


myLot reputation of 95/100. thanusha85 (336)   ranked 508 out of 921 in relationships  7 months ago

Hi Deepak

You are correct. My family members now have very high hopes on me that I would not fall for a guy who is in a different religion. I do not want to put them down again. Not always true love wins deepak. True love is my love for him and your love for shalini. I treated him just like how you treated shalini. He was everything for me. In you case she had no choice than to leave you, but in his case he had all the choice but he still left me. for the past few years I am living with his memories and unexpectedly I got in touch with him back. Its not only my family that I can accept him but I no longer feel secured with him. He might leave me and go anytime again when he facec financial difficulties. I love him truely and I know he too loves me alot. I will live with his memories till the end. Always pray for his happiness.

Thanusha


loveyoudt (40)  7 months ago

thanusha your love is true but as reading more about him, i can't say whether he loves you or not. True love means to be together at any and every cost, sharing everything happiness and sadness, riches and poor, if a person loves you then he will support you even when he has nothing. i am writing more about her in my next discussion an incident which will tell you what true love is.

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