He wants me back

Malaysia
April 25, 2009 3:04am CST
Hi everybody I have a small problem here. I got in touch back with my ex a few months ago and was speaking to him like a friend. However, we would usually share the memories that we had when we were together. I met him online and was in relationship with him for 3 years. He was a christian guy and I am an indian girl. When I told my family members regarding this, they opposed my love but then I convinced them to accept it. However our relationship came to an end when he told me he cants go on with me because we were from different religion. The actual reason is, we were both studying and depended on our family financially. Thats was why he left me because he felt I felt I was a burden. I got to knopw the reason few months back when I got in touch with him. Now he says he loves me still because I am his first love. No doubt I still love him too because he is my first love too. However I just cant accept him because my family have lost confidence in him after what he have done. The truth is I love him alot. What am I suppose to do? Should I accept hima nd go against my family? Should I say no to him and go against my feelings?
1 response
@sanuanu (11235)
• India
26 Apr 09
Think twice, after all I am no one to suggest you but... You yourself are saying that he left you out because he felt that you were a burden to him. What is the guarantee that he won't do that again in future. Life is not only based on love but also it needs faith and trust, which he lost from your side. I would call you a fool, if you choose to go with him. Think about your family, how can you convey your family that he is the best guy for you. Your father will ask you the same question which I just asked from you. Think wisely but my suggestion is that be a friend with him but don't trust him to be your life time 'time pass'!`