Will you still get jealous after being married?
By n30wing
@n30wing (4767)
Philippines
April 26, 2009 6:56am CST
I don't think so after all the years were been through, I don't think so, and I wont get jealous anymore because I don't see any reason at all. How about you guys will you still get jealous? That you already are both committed a lifetime being together.The more you trust and respect each other and to hold.Have a nice day to all of you!
5 responses
@alexandra777 (643)
• Philippines
27 Apr 09
Some people look at jealousy in a positive light, some just take it the negative way. I for one have no reason to be jealous at all. If i tell you that this is just one topic among the many that me and my hubby have already discussed it may appear as if i am repeating myself by saying that our love and respect for each other encompass the trust that keeps us tuned to one other and this also continually nurtures our relationship. We communicate and this goes beyond words. Even with just one touch, one look, a smile, a gesture...we practice healthy communication and jealousy just do not have a room in our house. ^_^
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
29 Apr 09
Hi alexandra777, when I was reading your response, I can't say anything else. I it's just that it's how you trust each other, and respect each other. If you love your partner you wont feel insecure or doubting each other. It's just a matter of communication and being honest with what you feel. Have a nice day to you!
@alexandra777 (643)
• Philippines
29 Apr 09
I LIKE YOU!!! Good Morning! Me and hubby are having late breakfast. Tomorrow is his birthday and we both took a forced leave today because we can not be away from the office tomorrow since it's month end. Thanks once again! ^_^
@prinzcy (32299)
• Malaysia
26 Apr 09
Jealousy is a sign of love. It's true that you're married but if you're not jealous at all no matter what your spouse do, then he/she might wonder whether you still love him/her. It's true too that marriage is based on trust and respect but feeling no jealousy at all is like taking thing for granted. It's alright to feel a bit jealous, as long as you not overdo it.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
29 Apr 09
Hi prinzcy, I know jealousy is a sign of love, there is no doubt about that. Maybe it's how we handle the relationship, usually jealousy sometimes is cause us both to argument, fights, and conflicts. Reasons to reasons and it gets bigger. I think it's just a matter of trusting each other. Understand each other more! Have a nice day to you!
@natliegleb (5173)
• India
29 Oct 12
it depends on my mindset,but frankly speaking i would ignore and continue with my life rather than worrying about others and thinking so hard about others also and what is the need for me,this is not proper behaviour to feel stressed,we can instead live happily an d enjoy the rest of our life alone
@bubuth (1815)
• Philippines
31 Jan 12
Actually even i'm married i still get jealous on his ex girlfriends because i see to him that he still have interest on them but i trust him and i know he will not do anything that will make me mad..
Even i know that he love me i can't still get the right point why i'm being jealous in the way he act when he see his ex girlfriend in facebook or in personal..
Even i know that he love me i can't still get the right point why i'm being jealous in the way he act when he see his ex girlfriend in facebook or in personal..
@jureathome (5361)
• Philippines
9 May 12
I believe jealousy is part of any relationship, even in marriage. It's normal but overdoing it is not healthy. There should be a good balance of trust and jealousy.
Between my husband and I, its me who often feels jealous with a lot of things - his friends, his work, his hobbies, etc. But, he always knows how to deal with that, by simply reassuring me of his love and faithfulness.
Remember, marriage is not an assurance that your partner will stay tied to you forever. Well, that is what it should be, but in the world we live in today, a lot of things can happen, if you let it.
