Is socialize a natural skill of a person, or you trained yourself to be?

I think almost ALL human beings are created to be social beings. So I believe that the ability to socialize is an innate skill in all of us. However, we differ in that ability in certain degrees. Some people are highly sociable and some are very withdrawn and shy. This ability is influenced by a lot of factors. Could be hereditary, learned through life and environment, or developed through trainings or seminars or practice. I too am very poor at socializing especially in parties with a lot of strangers. I really just stick with people I know. I mean, I could barely create new friends unless I get to be with them for a few days.

Building self esteem and confidence maybe the best thing you should practice. Socializing people is easy if you know proper ways on approaching and listening them. Try to listen people first, share if you have in mind and accept mistakes. Never pretend to something that you shouldn't know it perhaps make a little gap to people to socialize you but ofcourse be true to yourself and am sure you'll enjoy it.