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myLot reputation of 97/100. donnakristel (551)   ranked 936 out of 23,121 in relationships7 months ago

i don't know why i find it hard to say sorry. i think i don't want to accept that it is my fault. i find it hard because i believe that i have my own reasons why i did something wrong. it makes me think that i will be a lesser person when i accept my fault. i can't accept my faults easily.

how about you? do you find it hard?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 57/100. gongchhua (184)   ranked 12,740 out of 23,121 in relationships   7 months ago

when I face to different person, I have different attitudes. Facing my good friends,When I did something wrong, I find it easy to say sorry. Because I don't want to do harmful to my friends and break our relationship. Facing my parents, I find it hard to say sorry when did something wrong. Because I don't want to accept my fault. Maybe I shoud change my view. No matter who I faced, I should say sorry when I did wrong.


myLot reputation of 97/100. donnakristel (551)   ranked 936 out of 23,121 in relationships  7 months ago

thanks...

i think we should change our views about this.

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2. myLot reputation of 68/100. robert67 (1344)   ranked 3,896 out of 23,121 in relationships   7 months ago

if i am wrong i will definately say sorry, i dont find it hard to apologise if an apology is due.

however i will not apologise just to satisfy the other person if i feel my actions were merited.


myLot reputation of 97/100. donnakristel (551)   ranked 936 out of 23,121 in relationships  7 months ago

thanks...

you are tough in saying that.

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3. myLot reputation of 89/100. sanuanu (3901)   ranked 3,157 out of 23,121 in relationships   7 months ago

It is ego problem and the sooner we get rid of this problem the faster we would reach to our goals. Saying sorry is one of the toughest task in this world. Saying sorry to your boss isn't that hard but to your family members,it is like climbing a mountain, is'nt it?

I am also no exception, I also feel that I will be smaller person when i will say sorry to my family members.


myLot reputation of 97/100. donnakristel (551)   ranked 936 out of 23,121 in relationships  7 months ago

thanks..

yes, you are right..just ego problems. your ego that you can't beat easily...hope we can beat our egos!

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4. myLot reputation of 96/100. youless (15126)   ranked 222 out of 23,121 in relationships   7 months ago

I think it's very difficult for me to say sorry. I can do something to mean I am sorry. As to saying it directly, I still have a difficulty to do so.

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myLot reputation of 97/100. donnakristel (551)   ranked 936 out of 23,121 in relationships  7 months ago

thanks...

it is really difficult. wish i can have the courage to say it,

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5. myLot reputation of 96/100. crazyoverpurple (2921)   ranked 76 out of 23,121 in relationships   7 months ago

Not really. Actually, when I know that a disagreement or an argument was mostly because of my own misgivings, I readily say sorry. I always try to practice humility. It won't make me less of a person if I accept my faults, own up to them and say sorry.


myLot reputation of 97/100. donnakristel (551)   ranked 936 out of 23,121 in relationships  7 months ago

thanks...

you are really humble. i wish i can eat my ego and face my faults.

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6. myLot reputation of 98/100. cindyhxf (862)   ranked 924 out of 23,121 in relationships   7 months ago

i don't think say sorry is any shy thing .if i did wrong and i knew it is my fault really and i made other sad i don't care to say sorry to them.it is not hard for me


myLot reputation of 97/100. donnakristel (551)   ranked 936 out of 23,121 in relationships  7 months ago

thanks...

good for you..

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7. wgh423 (63)   ranked 9,674 out of 23,121 in relationships   7 months ago

It's hard for me to say sorry though i'm wrong, not because i'm shy or others can underestimate me, i just don't wanna say sorry, i can do it by action instead of saying.


myLot reputation of 97/100. donnakristel (551)   ranked 936 out of 23,121 in relationships  7 months ago

thanks...

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8. myLot reputation of 96/100. moonlitmagikchild (7145)   ranked 102 out of 23,121 in relationships   7 months ago

i dont like being wrong but when i am i will apologize.. if i am NOT at fault i refuse to apologize though.. a lot of people just want to guilt you into apologizing for something that isnt your fault or is really their fault which is bs..


myLot reputation of 97/100. donnakristel (551)   ranked 936 out of 23,121 in relationships  7 months ago

thanks..

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