People struck with grief are always pensive

I respect your opinion but I think people who are grieving are the ones who need others the most. Though they may seem to want to be left alone, they probably just know how to show or express the grief they're feeling. Leaving them alone could be more destructive to them than at least letting them know that you're their if they need someone to talk to.

i totally agree with it. people who are in a state of depression are better to be left alone instead of being disturbed. their temper is unexpected at times. since there is so much that troubles them.
one time during the course of my grieving process, i lost control of myself and was engage in a mis-undertanding with my uncle, we almost end up fighting. i admit that lost my temper but that is because he pissed me off.