would you keep it to yourself and observe from afar?

Hmm, do you mean that you already love the person and just happen to cross paths with them one day? Well, confessing one's feelings is definitely not an easy thing to do. There are things involved like friendship perhaps or how that person might take our confession. Would we be accepted, rejected, or at least even acknowledged? Im also the type who can admire from afar.LOL Im not that adventurous especially when I know that I dont have a chance. So I think it best to keep it to myself and just hopefully move on. However, I havent really been 'in love'. Sure, I love lots of people and I can tell them that I do love them anytime, anywhere but I think you're referring to romantic love..? Anyway, try to work up the courage someday to tell her or at least even drop hints on how you feel about her. Goodluck dude!

As long as you think its not too late, just keep that up until you have enough confidence. As long as you think you won't lose to anyone with that interest of yourse, just keep building that courage that you need so that you can confess right away. (^_^ ) Then again, why not take the chance and see what happens? Its better to know how it will end than to realize later on that it was too late or that you wished you had done it sooner. Be it a good ending or a bad ending, the important thing is that you were honest not only to yourself but also to that person (^_^ )

I do not like to not know anything and if I need to know if someone loves me I would just come out loud and tell her about my feelings and see what comes out of that. Cheers!!

Like you I was also observing from afar but my heart beat always doubled. But I have not wait a lot, my man proposed me before we starting to talk each other. I was trembling. He hold me, kissed me and married me.

Would you keep it to yourself or observe. Hello cmts_87, for me I would probably just keep it to myself if I met someone that I thought I was falling in love with. If you really think about it, could it be really love or do you just like them alot more than some others? I would think that it can't be true love because love comes with knowing somebody. There are very few people that we can meet and immediately say, I love you to them. So take your time with this one my friend. I think that you are doing right by observing the situation. For all you know, she might be married with children. Not that I'm trying to spoil you day but it's hard to say when you don't really know all the facts.Try to find out more and then come back and share with us mylotters okay? Thanks for posting.

I used to observe from afar, but then other boys kept getting the girls I liked. So I learned the hard way, now I approach, and am not fearless, but I kick fear in the shin, and shove him in the corner, he is still there, but I beat him up and put him out of my mind and go and talk to who ever needs to be talked to. The best way to get over your fear is to face it. Lack of Confidence is a fear of rejection.

i am a man that is very observant LOL!...but it doesn't mean that i am shy when it comes to approaching women. if i like the girl, i would not tell right away, i still have to make sure about my feelings towards that girl. i would like to know her more, be friend with her, the type that she would be comfortable at me and my presence. i want to assure her that i am a good man.alright! i am not a man that looks like celebrity that is why i am afraid to be rejected. that's the point why i have to observe first before i even make the move. i take things one step at a time.

Oh no! I will soon find enough information, and near to come and continue.

I would confess right away, I did seven years ago to and I am happily married to the him now!