would you keep it to yourself and observe from afar?

Oh no! I will soon find enough information, and near to come and continue.

Like you I was also observing from afar but my heart beat always doubled. But I have not wait a lot, my man proposed me before we starting to talk each other. I was trembling. He hold me, kissed me and married me.

I do not think we should be in too much of a rush to tell people ALL about ourselves. If i just met someone and they started telling me everything about family, xlovers, opinions, beliefs and run ins with the law plus many othet things I would think they were half a bubble shy of plum and set off running away from them as fast as I could.

Well, I am a lady and although in this day and age it's all right for a lady to sometimes make the first move, I guess you can say I'm an old schooler when it comes to that. If I really like a guy, I'd just keep it to myself or maybe tell a few close friends. I'd rather not let the guy know right away lest I want to be disappointed. Cause what if the guy is already committed to someone else or is just not interested in me, right? So I'd rather wait and see. If he likes me too, well and good. If not, well, at least I kept it to myself and didn't risk embarrasing myself.

I do not like to not know anything and if I need to know if someone loves me I would just come out loud and tell her about my feelings and see what comes out of that. Cheers!!

As long as you think its not too late, just keep that up until you have enough confidence. As long as you think you won't lose to anyone with that interest of yourse, just keep building that courage that you need so that you can confess right away. (^_^ )

Then again, why not take the chance and see what happens? Its better to know how it will end than to realize later on that it was too late or that you wished you had done it sooner. Be it a good ending or a bad ending, the important thing is that you were honest not only to yourself but also to that person (^_^ )

I used to observe from afar, but then other boys kept getting the girls I liked. So I learned the hard way, now I approach, and am not fearless, but I kick fear in the shin, and shove him in the corner, he is still there, but I beat him up and put him out of my mind and go and talk to who ever needs to be talked to. The best way to get over your fear is to face it. Lack of Confidence is a fear of rejection.

Hmm, do you mean that you already love the person and just happen to cross paths with them one day?

Well, confessing one's feelings is definitely not an easy thing to do. There are things involved like friendship perhaps or how that person might take our confession. Would we be accepted, rejected, or at least even acknowledged?
Im also the type who can admire from afar.LOL Im not that adventurous especially when I know that I dont have a chance. So I think it best to keep it to myself and just hopefully move on.
However, I havent really been 'in love'. Sure, I love lots of people and I can tell them that I do love them anytime, anywhere but I think you're referring to romantic love..?

Anyway, try to work up the courage someday to tell her or at least even drop hints on how you feel about her. Goodluck dude!

i am a man that is very observant LOL!...but it doesn't mean that i am shy when it comes to approaching women. if i like the girl, i would not tell right away, i still have to make sure about my feelings towards that girl. i would like to know her more, be friend with her, the type that she would be comfortable at me and my presence. i want to assure her that i am a good man.alright!
i am not a man that looks like celebrity that is why i am afraid to be rejected. that's the point why i have to observe first before i even make the move. i take things one step at a time.

I would confess right away, I did seven years ago to and I am happily married to the him now!