If you reached thirty and your not married, will you get worried?

And you guys just don't contend that social cliche that treat women like commercial products with a expirary date? You think your own value decrease on the marriage market as you're getting old? You're adults and the free choice of getting married is one of the most important aspects of human rights. Those gossiping people who cause others' parents tensions should be blamed. No wonder there're always gender gaps. How could girls be treated with respects by maen if they could not even be valued by their own parents?

Sorry this is little bit away from the topic. My answer is, no,why bother to worry about this? what's the actual difference between 30 and 31 or 29 and 30?

Hi daliaj, well in our country we are not that much pressured by our parents. It's our own choice, our decision, and if were already ready about getting married. It's just upon us, not our parents because it our life will make. I think there are a lot of single ladies who are on their 30's same with men who are still single maybe it's their choice being single or haven't found the right person yet. Anyway have a nice day to you!

Hi med889, I like your out look in life. As long as your in love and really found the right person no matter if you reach 30 or older or younger you can get married. I never got worried not getting married when I was at that age. Anyway I had my priorities to do and make. And maybe I wasn't thinking about it. Anyway have a nice day to you!

My friend, push herself to get married even if she wasn't sure at all with the man she will get married to. She was to stressed up with the pressure around of being single at her age. She end up still sad because she married the wrong person. At first, she thought her life would be complete and would be easier when she is married. The opposite happened. She is sad right now and quarrels a lot with her husband. Her life becomes miserable because she pushed herself to get married when clearly it was not with the right person....just for the sake of getting married and getting off from peer pressure. If you are happy with what you have and where you are, you don't have to get married because you need to...you should get married because it is the right person and the right time.

You are so right, and I'm glad to know you're so happy!! It's too bad about your friend. No one should ever be forced into marriage by a certain age, however, I realize that in some countries that happens. It's so sad...I was 33 when I got married, and my husband and I were engaged for 3 years!!! No rush, I used to get tired of people always asked, "When are you getting married???" I think that's such a personal question.. Have a great day!!

Hi anday0180, I wasn't worried that I am not married at that time, cause I have other priorities, but I was thinking it will just come along the way. Everything will just happen. That time I was just thinking of a good job, supporting my parents. How to survive life. Then getting married and you can't provide and not ready yet. I just want everything in order maybe. Anyway there is nothing wrong that your still single then being not a good provider to your wife. Anyway have a nice day to you!

Hi eltobh, I think there is always a right time with everything. So what if I am not yet married, as long as I can achieved my goal first, and that is landing a right job and serving first for my family. Well I owe them my life so it's repaying it back to them by taking care of what they need. In my country marriage is not force, we make our own choices, and we make our own life. Some gets married younger, some when they are ready to that kind of life marriage. Providing for their wife and children is not a easy life. I know it will just comes along my way when I am ready. Have a nice day to you!

Hi my friend modstar, you know what I did not look for it, it just happens. Do you know there was a time in my life that I was thinking to get married when I reached 37 years old. I never expected that I will really fall in love my friend. But I really don't want to loose my fiancee. This is the first time I felt this way. The getting to know stage, it's like we know each other for so long me and my fiancee. I don't know maybe it was really meant to happen. Dude it will just comes along the way believe me! Cause it happened to me. Anyway have a nice day to you friend. Sorry for the late reply! Have a nice day to you!

Hi my friend underdog I'll be getting married soon too age 33. Cheers!

Hi geniustiger, I agree with what you've said that there is no age limit in marrying with someone as long that your ready facing the responsibility and obligations. What is first is first your priorities in life. Like getting a good job and better pay. Before I use to think that I'll get married at the age of 37 years old. But everything change! Anyway have a nice day to you!

Hi rosemarierealino, let's not justify that, there are men who likes matured women, then younger then them. Maybe it just comes along the way, but getting married there is no age limit. As long as you can face the responsibility, obligations as being a husband. You can handle everything, I still believe that men is the provider in the family. Anyway have a nice day to you!

hi patialvi, I think in getting married doesn't have a age limit as long as your matured enough and you know that your ready. As long as you know the responsibility and obligations your gonna face. Anyway have a nice day to you!

Hi Videogeezer, anyway we all have different choices and we make our own lives. I still respect your opinion regard marriage and getting married. Anyway there is no age limit to get married as long as you know your gonna get into. Anyway have a nice day to you!