why do some people choose to love a 'cheater' rather than a good one?
By jheLaichie
@jheLaichie (4438)
Philippines
May 26, 2009 8:38am CST
why do we always believe that they are good even they are not? maybe because in love, you cannot see the bad reality of things, unless you get hurt by them. you will suddenly realize how worse that person is . . . that is the pathetic part of being inlove, that sometimes even the 'worst person' in this world can be the 'best person' for your own belief.
i have made this mistake before. mostly all of it, my past relationships. and it hurts so much! but still, i hold on and continue on living even if some part of me is dying. even upto now, forgetting about it all is so hard to let it just slip it out of my mind. hoping it could really disappear for good.
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@lkbooi (16070)
• Malaysia
27 May 09
I think most probably we enjoy listening to sweet words from them. As what we know most of the love cheaters are excellent and even very professionally in their sweet talks. Yeah, they understand that women are always indulged in these sweet words, as well as the considerate and hospitable care.
Yeah, a good guy may be not as thoughtful and good in showing his love and care using the sweet talk like the love cheaters all the time to his loved one. But he is sincere and faithful. Only time could prove the truth that who is the real good one
Happy posting 
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@jheLaichie (4438)
• Philippines
27 May 09
thanks for that wonderful response of yours my friend. anyway, not all guys are cheaters but mostly they do. yes, they always get away with their sweet talks, charming smiles, alot of cares and a total knock out on understanding you. yet we don't really know their true motives on us.
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@lkbooi (16070)
• Malaysia
27 May 09
You are most welcome jhe.
Hopefully we could always stay together with somebody with true love intimately and happily
Besides we have to be aware of certain persons who always good in sweet talks but with malicious motive lurking around us at any moment.
Besides we have to be aware of certain persons who always good in sweet talks but with malicious motive lurking around us at any moment.1 person likes this
@jheLaichie (4438)
• Philippines
27 May 09
yes you are so right with that my friend. my fiance and me now, have gone through so many aches and pains alreadya nd i just hope we could still go on and on further with each other! thanks friend!
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@xannebull (1793)
• Philippines
27 May 09
it's because love won't choose someone to love. no matter what the personality of someone you love, once you've hit by cupid, everything will be forgotten. i've once had a bad relationship before. but i do thank God that i found a person who is truly for me.. i hope you found someone too.
@jheLaichie (4438)
• Philippines
30 May 09
you are right xanne! if love hits us. we wouldnt then care what he/she may be. their past arent important and you accepted them for who they were and what they have been before. you accepts their good as well as bad side and thats how loving is. because we couldnt choose the one we love. it just hit us! and we wouldnt even know why. thanks friend!
