Do you like for your woman or man to smoke?  |
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 I really hate that my fiance sometimes picks up a cigg. and starts smoking. Well he hasnt smoke for quite awhile it sure kills you and causes cancer. I did try it a few times which I almost got addicted to it but my fiance stopped it plus before him it was one of my old bestfriends which is a guy stop me before I kept doing it. I quit and dont do it so I try to tell my love one in which I truly care about him so much and dont want him suffer because he has smoke.
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1.  alvingb (163) | 7 months ago | hi there you are right smoking is actually bad and it causes cancer. well but if my man or woman smokes than i believe we cant just leave that person just because he does something that damages himself or herself. well then that is definitely not love. I think we we shoulf stay by the person and help him or her try to quit. its a battle that both the lovers have to come together and try to stop. leaving the other person is not what love would do. Well it just sounds not right to me to leave a person just because he smokes. I mean that goes for all other bad habits as well. If we find the person do somthing bad then we should tell the person how we feel and help the person to change and not leave the person. This is just my opinion.
best regards,
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| 02karen (42) | 7 months ago | alvingb - Yes, true because if you love that person you just cant give up on him/her then it shows that when they do something wrong your just going to walk away from problems which you never loved that person. I really like your response and that's true what your saying and I truly do. Yes, and Im finding ways to help him and thank god he hasnt picked up another cigg. Thank you, very much!!^_^ | |
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2.  Colmuc (377) | 7 months ago | Hi Karen,
I would not like to have a partner who smokes. The smell irritates me.
If however you accept someone who smokes as a partner then it is unfair to later put pressure on them to stop. I sympathise with smokers in that it is not an easy habit to give up. I was lucky because I never started so don't face the problem of trying to stop. | |
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| 02karen (42) | 7 months ago | Colmuc - Hello, sir!! You dislike the smell too. Well of course, it all depends on the person and whether you truly love the person and try to find ways for your love one to stop. I understand its not easy. If that person really loves you they sure would stop smoking as long you dont do nothing in return that they dislike. Well then that's a good thing that you never tried it. Yes, it kills you faster after you smoke so much. | |
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| 02karen (42) | 7 months ago | RRdelacruz84 - I see...well she really cares for you and you should try it if you love that person you would do anything as in return. Wont you? Well you both care for each other...help each other out fight for it but really do something about it not just say it. When people keep saying it so much...a lot of people wont believe you no more the wind just blow your words away when pigs fly that's when people well believe you. | |
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| 4. underdogtoo (8736) | 7 months ago | Smoking is a nasty habit and one that is difficult to kick. I would not want anyone to smoke but it is not up to me and I just watch them smoke. Cheers!! | |
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| 02karen (42) | 7 months ago | Underdogtoo - You hate it too. True about that well its people lives but if you have someone near you wouldn't you do something about it besides getting drunk. | |
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| 5. biman_s (583) | 7 months ago |  I don't smoke and neither does my partner. Both of us hate smoking and tend to stay away from those who smoke.I think it useless after all it gives you nothing but takes away everything from you. Tell your fiance to quit smoking as og now. It will not make a good future for both of you.
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| 02karen (42) | 7 months ago | biman_s - I dont blame you and your partner. Yeah and many that smoke dont realize that they are not just killing themselves but their love ones too. He already did...its been quite awhile that he hasnt done it so its a good thing. | |
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6.  3SnuggleBunnies (3466) | 7 months ago |  I don't like that my hubby smokes at all. I'm afraid he can't quit he's tried and I can only hope that one day he will be ready to quit forever. The part I don't like is when he smokes in the house or lies about it.
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| 02karen (42) | 7 months ago | 3SnuggleBunnies - Yeah I bet you dont like it at all but talk to each other. Okay if he doesnt like something from you...then make a promise to each other. For an example, let's say he doesnt like you for you to talk with other men dont do it but he has to promise too that he wont smoke. Yeah they try to lie about it but I always find out when they're lying especially when you kiss him. | |
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| 7. arkansos (382) | 7 months ago | I don't think it will make much of a difference to me. I am a smoker myself. Although I'd advice her to quit, forcing her to do so would be hypocrisy. Ia m planning to quit myself some time. Let's see how that comes along | |
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| 02karen (42) | 3 months ago | Arkansos - I really do understand your opinion in forcing someone. Im not forcing anyone but do you want to see her soon in 6 ft under your love one when you could've done something before. Okay you smoke and you might live longer than her but you know smoking kills you and causes cancer and etc. | |
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| 8. tinapay01 (55) | 7 months ago |  Under any circumstances, no. I don't distaste smoking just because I have a history of asthma, but there's also the fact that cigarette smoking is dangerous to your health. You're an angel for trying to persuade a smoking man to not smoke anymore. You're a 1-woman rehab! Hehe.:p
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| 02karen (42) | 3 months ago | Tinapay01 - Oh okay well yeah asthma and smoking can actually kill you. Yes, it sure is and it doesnt just causes cancer, heart attacks, including death.:)Thank you, very much and I really appreciate what you wrote. lol...I'll keep that in mind. | |
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| 9. cobra1368 (518) | 7 months ago |  Ew! No way! Smoking is a deal-breaker for me. I had a boyfriend that used to smoke socially, and I hated it! My husband now has been tobacco-free for over a decade. He smoked before I knew him, and he quit before I knew him.
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| muscles4me (8950) | 7 months ago |  It is yucky thats for sure. I agree with you. If I am around a group of people I try to get between two other non smokers.
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| 02karen (42) | 3 months ago | Cobra1368- lmao... yeah I bet you did. Well that's good to know. lol..I see what you mean. Well Im glad that he stopped for you though. Mine hasnt smoke for awhile and he sometimes picks it up but he will for sure stop smoking when we have a baby.
Muscles4me - Good answer yeah well sometimes its kind of hard to move away from people that smoke if you have a close friend or your love one next to you and even the smoking people will notice something is wrong. Like if your avoiding them just because that they smoke. | |
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| 02karen (42) | 3 months ago | Bombshell - Good. | |
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