Could YOU ever fall out of love???
By bodhisatya
@bodhisatya (2384)
India
May 31, 2009 6:43am CST
I wonder many a times and it concerns me a lot that how could people do this to someone whom they "claim" that they LOVED them??
Let me explain. There are numerous couples who fall in love, then take oath to stay and spend their lives together. They can can go even to the extent of having kids and be a "Happy Family".
Then somehow, somewhere down the line this evil crops up in their mind and they suddenly fall out of love to the the one whom they loved so dearly. The hatred can go as far as even they don't want to mention their names, they don't want to see them any more. They say they simply fell out of love.
It amuses me really, how could someone just fall out of love? Does it really mean that they were "really" in love at the first place? If you truly love someone then you need to really care about the person no matter what, and the same is expected upto some extent from the other person as well, but is it just possible to not to care anymore?
Could you just get tired of seeing the same person everyday and fall out of love?
Would you be kind enough to explain the concept to me?
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2 responses
@shadowkill (148)
• Philippines
31 May 09
AS for me, falling out of love simply put as they never really fall in love in the first place.There isn't love involved, only attraction nothing more. Because if ever you are really in love you won't fall out of love. Sometimes people are in love on the idea of being in love.
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@bodhisatya (2384)
• India
31 May 09
That is exactly what i intended to post. If you can fall"out of love" in a relationship then maybe you were never in love. And yes you precisely said it it is "an idea of being in love".
Maybe some people do it for social acceptance, if that is so, it is really pathetic. Love if it is true it is for eternity.
Thank you so much for your response.
@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
2 Jun 09
I don't think that a person could ever fall OUT of love. Once you fall in love you are in love, there isn't falling out of love. When you break up and meet someone new you can fall in love which would be different and greater than the love you felt before. The love I feel for exes is different thans the love I feel for my current boyfriend.
@bodhisatya (2384)
• India
2 Jun 09
I guess I haven't yet experienced a feeling of that sort yet. But aren't you falling out of love from the one you loved before hence you could fall in love with a new person.
