Do you still love your mother even your mother hate you?

You're right even though it seems aweful there are mothers who hate their children. I do not undetrstand it nor will I ever understand it. We like to think that it's an impossibility because no matter what, moms do make huge sacrifices when raising you. The first being the lack of sleep she gets every time she responds to your every cry. But the question is, if she hates you now, what makes us think she actually responded when we cried at night? she could have ignored us, let us get diaper rash and marinate in our own poop but perhaps she still cared when she gave a change of clothes, fed me, etc.

There are so many different types of mothers out there. Some are able to show their effection and some aren't. If you really think that your mother hates you, you don't have to show that hatred back. Just go with your instincts and how you feel.

Dad's on the other hand are different... I've hated my dad growing up and no matter what good he did, I resented him deep down but never showed him.


wishing you the best!

Yes mother is our first god . I have never been into a situation where my mother had hated me . And no mother will probably hate her child.But, even if she is angry over me, i ll still love my mother as she gave me this life that i am enjoying

I think I will do. But, I am sure that there a situation like that will never happen in my life. My mother is very nice and she always prays for me. I don't think any mother can hate their children. Similarly, it is difficult for the kids to hate their mother, even if the mother is mean to the kid.

I agree! Our mother really sacrifices a lot inorder for us to see the beauty of the world. I love my mother so much as well as she did to me. I think there is no instance for a mother to hate her child. Our parents wants the best for us. We are from our mother's womb for nine months. But if she hates me, I would still love her unconditionally. For me, she owns my life. She feeds me from her womb up to now for me to live.

hi hanah,
i always love my mother no matter what.even if she hates me i would love her as always.so what about you,what would you do.i have never seen or heard about any mother hating her own children.mat be some mothers may be angry with their children due their mischief,but that lasts for only a day or two sometimes it lasts only for a matter of seconds.

I don't know. my mom loves me very much.
love or hate? love can make someone feel happy, but hate can kill a person, because he/she will lose more chance to cherish everything around him/her.
so please choose love, even mom doesn't like you or hate you.

Still now, I do not see that mother hate their children. But I do see young men discard their parents when they married.

I do not quite understand the question. I think it's because I do not know how it feels to be not liked or not loved by my mother. My mother is the most wonderful person in my life and the main reason that she is so wonderful is primarily because she loves me.

I believe that if there is no love from another person - in fact there is hate from her, even if she were someone's mother, it would be very difficult for a person to lover her back.

Maybe she regretted having a kid because it made her feel like she lost different opportunities in life for being a mother. Whatever the reason, I would never understand it and I hope to never encounter it in my life.

Thank you for your response on my discussion!

The mother love is like God's love; she loves us not because we are lovable, but because it is her nature to love, and because we are her children.

I think you need to read my post on "Before she was a mother… (now she's a mother). dedicated to all mothers". If your mother does not like find out the cause of the so called "hatred".
If she does not want to respond to you, find someone to speak with her in order to find out the reason(s) for her actions. What is called MOTHER is more than anyone of us can ever explain. They see things better because they know us better; most of them get grievances because we feel that now that we are adult, their effort over us is meaningless. We feel their opinion is out-dated and irrelevant to our age. Such things hurt them more than we can ever tell.
So, if your mother hates you, you just do your duty to her: Which is to care for her. The same way she did her duty to you while you were growing up.
Can you repay her for her sleepless night, her moment of pain, hunger and deprivation owing to her inability to bear to see you cry when you were sick as a child?
YOU CANNOT HATE YOUR MOTHER; JUST DO YOUR DUTY IN RETURN

Yes even though my mother didn't want to ever see me again, I loved her, She also knew this. How she knew this is I sent her flowers or small gifts at different times of the year. My mother God rest her soul, was an abusive person and she didn't hold anything back when she wanted to make a point of making you feel like you were no good to anyone. Still I loved my Mother, because she is the person who gave birth to me, if it wasn't for her and my father, I would not be here.