question about sexuality...

@britt_200 (1226)
United States
June 2, 2009 3:02pm CST
i consider myself straight,and i have a boyfriend. but im turned on by women. i love to be with men, but i have never been with a woman so idk if i would enjoy it...but i get turned on by woman and i have lots of fantasies about women...what are your thoughts about this?
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4 responses
@Bionicman (3958)
• Czech Republic
2 Jun 09
You're probably bi. It's no big deal
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@britt_200 (1226)
• United States
2 Jun 09
lol thats a quick diagnosis. do you think that even tho i havent actually been with a woman that im bi?
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@britt_200 (1226)
• United States
4 Jun 09
thats true! but ill never know unless something like that happens...
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• United States
2 Jun 09
I'd consider you to be bi curious. You like women but have never ventured to experience it. I think it's normal and a lot of women are like that. I have been with both men and women, but now that I'm married I'm in pretty much the same situation as you are. If you ever try it just make sure you're either not in a lreationship to ruin or everybodies aware and okay with the situation.
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@britt_200 (1226)
• United States
2 Jun 09
yeah...well i would definitely try being with a woman...i have no problems with that lol..and my boyfriend doesnt consider it cheating if i just want to try it and see...he doesnt mind it. so who knows if i find the right girl and get to that point then we will see....thanks for the post.
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@aidenw (632)
• United States
2 Jun 09
i believe many people are actually bi to a certain degree. yes it's a matter of degree. please read my response to your other discussion :) if you have lots of fantasies about women why not give it a try? it's one way to find out if you would enjoy it :)
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@britt_200 (1226)
• United States
2 Jun 09
yeah thats true! thank you for your comments! i really agree with you! im definitely not going to close my mind to anything because i know that there is a possibility that i could like it. :) thanks tho!
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@jb78000 (15139)
4 Jun 09
i think you should experiment. sadly i've always been attracted just to men and i think i've maybe missed out on something
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@britt_200 (1226)
• United States
4 Jun 09
maybe...you know women know a womans body right? idk...sometimes its ok for some people to experiment because maybe they are bi or gay...but you really never know...and since i have fantasies and i am attracted to women sexually maybe i am..
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