If you look back to your life, what do you remember most, joy or pain?
By vivianchen
@vivianchen (2646)
China
June 4, 2009 12:52am CST
Good day Mylottors,
I don't know how old you are, i am 25. When i look back my 25 years life (Some of year i don't remember what happen like i was 1-2 years old.lol
), life have been filled with joy and pain, i felt pain when i was sufferring the tough time. But now, after i came over all the difficulties, i thank those tough tasks i've been through.
May be i am not the age to memory the past, but when i look back to my life, i would said Joys is more than pains.
What about you? 
), life have been filled with joy and pain, i felt pain when i was sufferring the tough time. But now, after i came over all the difficulties, i thank those tough tasks i've been through.
May be i am not the age to memory the past, but when i look back to my life, i would said Joys is more than pains.
What about you? 1 person likes this
4 responses
@pingi68 (304)
• Italy
4 Jun 09
I'm 40 and i had lots of experience, negative and positive.
but if i look back to my life, i think that Joys have been more than pains.
i can say i'm lucky.
i have a wonderful parents, wonderful sister, lovely nephews, good marriage, 2 fantastic daughters, good job... what can i pretend else from life?
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@vivianchen (2646)
• China
4 Jun 09
Hi Pingi,
Yes, you are very lucky! I envy you. Compare to you, i will say i only have a okay parents, good sisters, okay jobs. But i am sure i will get better in the further.And when i get to 40, i hope i will be able to say the same words that you are saying!
@underdogtoo (9579)
• Philippines
4 Jun 09
I see joy and I see pain. Right now, there is pain but I think of something to do and that brings a kind of relief, not really joy but a little relief from pain. Cheers!!
@vivianchen (2646)
• China
5 Jun 09
Hi Underdogtoo,
I see your point. Some people said that pain past is joy, do you agree?
@nanayangel (7877)
• Philippines
4 Jun 09
Hi there Vivian!
I don't mean to sound negative but I think it's more of the pain. I only had one very painful memory but its degree makes me cry even now, seven years after it happened.
I also remember a lot of joyful experiences but when I do, usually they are followed by some sadness that I can never go back to that time again.
I am thankful of what I have today, really grateful. It's just that sometimes, pain is much more remembered because you learn from it and sometimes, it comes with regrets.
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@vivianchen (2646)
• China
4 Jun 09
Hi Nanayangel,
i agree about"pain is much more remembered because you learn from it and sometimes, it comes with regrets". Buti think we should forgive the pain and remember the good times.
@tuyakiki (3016)
• India
4 Jun 09
Painful memories leave a deep scar in my memory,as they are not plenty in numbers.I get hurt when I remember about those times. I just feel comfortable when I think about the great joyous situation though which I ever gone through.It cheered me that time,when I feel sad or depressed.
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@vivianchen (2646)
• China
4 Jun 09
Hi Tuyakiki,
Everyone will go through many pains and joys in their life. Don't forget to always have a dream!
