Can High Heels help me?

hello there!
my friend is fond of using high heels but not too high just enough that she can carry very well. she is fond of using it because she feels that she is short at 5'1" so she use it to add some inches and true it makes her look better and taller. and so it adds confidence on her.
me, i just use high heels occasionally. when i was still working i use it in office, its more professional and appropriate.
but there are some who use high heels that instead to look better, they just look weird, because they don't carry it well, they walk like i don't know and they sometimes look funny...i saw one in a mall using high heels and she is obviously having difficulties in walking with that high heeled shoes. my husband can't help himself ask me, why some girls use that kind of shoes when they have difficulties in walking and he thinks that its not appropriate using it at malls and it does not look good with that girl.
so as a conclusion i think, wearing high heels to look better, depends on the one using it, on the ocassion and situation. and yes it do helps you when properly used.
and plus, it makes our legs look longer & sexier?...mmmmm
have a nice day!

Well, are you actually more comfortable with wearing high heels? If you feel unusual with them (ie. too different in terms of class, or perhaps simply clumsy), stick to more sensible footwear.

Remember not to worry about how others look at you if you can look at yourself and feel good. Make change for yourself, and not for others if they think it will help you and you don't think so. Remember what is really 'change for others'. If it doesn't benefit anyone, don't do it.

If you like the change, you might experiment with it for some time, and then choose whether or not to ditch the high heels. I think the best kind of anything is the kind that helps you grow in character and fit yourself. Don't be fooled by things that improve the appearance thereof of you. Be the way you are. Change only for the better. Is it confusing? If it is, you're working on it. That's great!

I never see who is wearing what and what the height is?Confidence comes from your body language and behavior patterns.Most famous people are short and yet they can command their demands.So,I don't think heels can bring you respect from others.But if you feel you are comfortable then continue.Else skip the idea.Cheers!

Hi there, I, myself, have been wearing high heels ever since college. Well, you should first learn how to walk with them because it's quite different with flat shoes. When you get the hang of wearing them, then you'll be confident to strut down that street and look sexy with it. I must admit that wearing high heels makes a woman sexier because it adds up your height. But the most important thing is that you, yourself, are confident with what you are.

I always wear high heels when i go out with my friends where as when i am at home i wear trainers.I wear them as,they can be worn with all my clothes and it gives me a bit more height.That way people do not talk down to me as well as that is how i used to feel when i went out.

hi inkingderders,
i don't really know if all that are true,but i do know one thing,wearing high heels is harmful to health.a recent study reveals that when you wear high heels each step you take sends a sudden shock to your brain(which you won't feel at all till it becomes complicated).this shock can cause a lot of small damages which will can ultimately lead to something worse.so its advisable to wear high heels only when you don't have to walk too much.and also wearing high heels can cause pain to your ankles.

I think wearing high heels does make the whole shapre looks better especially if we wear high heels and skirt, it looks nicer than just wearig sneakers or flat shoes.

The extra lift in height gives of a more towering and superior appearance. Plus I think it forces the chest out a little bit so that the umm... "twins" seem to appear bigger. If you're gonna wear them be sure to take them during lunch break because the lower back can be misaligned if you use them nonstop continuously, it could lead to a slip disk if you wear them constantly for many years.

I've always thought that high heels always make people at work look more professional and very confident. However I wouldn't have the confidence myself to wear them to work, but thats probably sensible as I work in a busy pub and I am usually rushed off my feet, I'd more than likely end up breaking bones if I started wearing high heels to work.

I believe that even when you wear high heel it makes you feel better about your overall appearance for those of us who are insecure. I think that people will look at you differently now that you wear high heels to work as they will think, oh look at her, and wish that they had the confidence to dress as powerful as you or even 'pull it off' if you get me. Hope this helped you.

Cayla, x

Personally, I don't think high heels will make any different in ones' look(unless is those super high ones, like 3-inches and above..), but it changes the way a person walk. They have to walk in a proper and more 'careful' manner, especially for 'beginner' else they will lose balance and falls everywhere. Thus, makes them look more graceful and elegant compare to normal.