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Do you make friends with your exes and do you make friends with your partner ex? email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 95/100. charlenmendoza (516)   ranked 394 out of 19,456 in questions & answers7 months ago

As much as possible i want my exes to be civil, if we can be friends better. I dont want enemies or a closure with my ex boyfriends so im really trying my best to have a good relationship with them. So when you see each other it will not be uncomfortable. You can smile and say hi.
what about you, do you make friends with them or just civil or enemies?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 75/100. mike1976 (1100)   ranked 1,230 out of 19,456 in questions & answers   7 months ago

I may be friends with them in the future but not for a significant time after we split up. I have never been friends with any of my partners ex's as I think that this could cause frictions between us.


myLot reputation of 95/100. charlenmendoza (516)   ranked 394 out of 19,456 in questions & answers  7 months ago

well at least all of us want them not enemies but friends, yes, it cannot happen instantly, it will take sometime before you build that friendship. a lot of things need to be done, like accept what happen and that the two of you are not ok anymore, then forgiving for her and most especially for yourself, then forgetting the past and move on to the future and then thats the time you can decide if you want her to be one of your friends.


myLot reputation of 75/100. mike1976 (1100)   ranked 1,230 out of 19,456 in questions & answers  7 months ago

I wouldn't want them as enemies but as yet I am not actual friends with any of my previous girlfriends. Maybe this will change with my last ex as that could result in friendship with a little time.

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2. myLot reputation of 67/100. zackn87 (334)   ranked 6,670 out of 19,456 in questions & answers   7 months ago

yeah i wait at least a year and a half before i become friends with an ex..just so i dont become hurt when i see them.


myLot reputation of 95/100. charlenmendoza (516)   ranked 394 out of 19,456 in questions & answers  7 months ago

you have time limit, one year and a half? whats with the time frame? there are times that we forget easily, there are times it takes long like a year or more than 2 years. its actually depend on the level of your relationship, right? hope i make sense.

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