Are you careful to whom your giving a message

some years back I would alwasy flirt with this guy i worked with. he would flirt back but I know that he was playing around and so was I. Well he later started having problems at home with his wife. He mentioned that he enjoyed the friendship and the attention I gave him. I thought nothing of it because I had no idea that his wife and he had stopped sleeping in the same bed and that she was moving out of state for a while to clear her head. well one night after a long week a few of us all met up after work. We went to a nice bar had dinner and then bowled and got drunk. He knew I had been drinking too much so he offered to take me to IHop for breakfast and let me sober up before letting me get back on the road. I did not want to do that so we went to a open gas station and got somthing hot to drink. we sat in the car and talk about a little of everything and he metioned that he was attracted to me and then kissed me. Well I don't belive that being drunk changes anything because I knew what I was doing. We got caught up in the moment. it felt good we had been flirting for over a year it was like fourplay. But after that I watched how I enter acted with men because It could always lead to more and I did not want to be anyone home wrecker.

Are you cafeful to whom you giving a message......... Hello there, yes I am very careful to whom I give messages to. As for flirting it can be a very dangerous thing and can easily lead to other stuff so I hardly ever flirt with anyone. Because I don't want anyone to get the wrong idea. But if I'm talking to a younger guy. I might say, take care honey or something like that...... But then again most of them know that I"m old enough to be their older sister and sometimes even their mom so it's no big deal and no misunderstandings take place. I think for a rule of thumb it's best not to flirt not unless your really know someone and they know that you are just kidding around. Good luck in the future good girl:).

Hi Mikaela! I have not done like it. However, I feel whatever you did was the right thing with your friend. You were well within right to deny him the things, which you donot approve or feel comfortable with. You knew your limits and you knew he was going to States, so it was safest for you not to give him liberty beyond a limit. Please do not feel bad about it, if he did not inform you before leaving, it was his fault not yours.