i love my grandma.. Don't take loved ones for granted!
By andresimp
@andresimp (818)
India
June 10, 2009 8:31am CST
i love my Grandma and i miss her, i wanted to write a testimonial about her as a tribute. my grandparents(mom's parents) only raised me up. i spend most of the time with them. especially my grandma. my parents worked and when they come back they fight for some reason. if it wasnt my grandmother's love.. i would have gone mad. she was an embodiment of love, very delicate,innocent and kind hearted. she worried a lot about me and my family.. she took all the efforts to make me happy. she would attend all prayer meetings and pray for me and my family and sacrificed a lot(LOT) for me and my family. but i was stupid i took her for granted. my attitude changed in my teenage when i met my boyfriend,i spent a lot of time with him, but in return he didnt love me the way i did. for 2 years i spend most of my time in depression because of this so called relationship. my grandma was worried about me. one morning i realized that no one can love and care for me better than my grandma and then i decided to spend time with my grandma and make her happy.. but it was not more than 1/2 hour from the time i made that decision, she passed away. a tenant who stayed in my house abused my grandma disrespectfully, it affected her so badly and while she was fighting back, she fell down and we rushed her to the hospital where the doctors said she was dead. that was the most devastating painful incident in my life. i didnt expect this on the day i decided to be with her. she wanted to see me graduating from college, my wedding etc. i was so blessed to have a grandma like her but she deserved a better granddaughter, unlike me. im in tears now. (i miss you grandma(patti))please dont take your loved ones for granted.. especially if it is your grandparents. Dont make the same mistake i did. please discuss with me if you had taken your loved ones for granted..
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3 responses
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
21 Aug 10
I love my grandma, she is very loving and caring! She tells me all stories and make me sweets.
@Ruby722 (796)
• China
11 Jun 09
I am so sorry to hear about that,Sometimes the god like joke with us.When we finally realize someone is really means to us.They suddenly gone.it was a really sad stroy.you know what?your grandmother will sense that your love her in the god.
she will get serene.Your story give me a good advice,Never thought your grandparent give to you,it's your deserved.You should be with them and love them for return this. we all need to do this.
@sanwhy (87)
• Jamaica
10 Jun 09
i totally agree with you in evergthing we must give thanks so whenever you have sweet grandparents please do the best you can for them. they are only trying to assists you in preventing a possible similiar mistakes as they did . remember that they have been through it already therefore what we the younger generations think that they are only trying to ruin our lives and they should allow us to make our mistakes . but,
the time will come when we all will say "if i had only known" that this would be the out come then we truly understand that what they tried to tell us, was indeed to warn us. in most cases it is often too late.




