Difficult Decision

I almost always have trouble giving out best responses, which is why I have so many "unresolved discussions". Sometimes, there really isn't a "best" response; there are so many good, but differing, responses. Then, there are some whose response is almost identical to other responses. Now, how could we possibly be able to give out a best response when more than one person says something extremely similar and what they're all saying would be the best response? Personally, I'd like to see the best response thingie done away with.

I just started on here so I really haven't had anything difficult to worry about. I do struggle not to comment on every comment that's made in a discussion. I don't know if anyone, especially the person who started the discussion, would find it rude. Hope not.

Now that I come to think of it, I guess its the same for me...giving the 'best response'...I am so undecided on whom to give the 'best response' that in most cases, I dont mark it at all!

The hardest part for me is staying off all those repeated discussions I would so like to go and point out that the topics have already been discussed and that they will be deleted and that when that happens they should not complain about myLot be bad and it all being so unfair and the like. It is so obvious that some discussions are repeats that it is not a case of myLot being bad but of users wasting their time What is the point of going and responding on the same topic over and over again when we all know by now that they will go? But I keep quiet as I am fed up with losing points for ttying to help those who do not want to know

The most difficult decision for me is to find ideas to start a discussion. You see, i like unique topic, which no one had ever taught about it. Something that very interesting to get a lot of responses. It is fun to comment if the discussion are interesting. I am sure you feel the same way too. Commenting is not a problem, finding an interesting topic worth for your respond is somewhat hard. Because I saw a lot of similar topics here.

hi there, mylot is a very fun and exciting place to be in. posting and rating post is really a interesting to do. Anyway as for me, i do find it diffuclt to actually find for post to actually reply to. I guess i actually spend more time finding for post to reply to rather then the time taken to actually reply to a post. I usually find for post where i can write a good substantial amount in quality. well therefore that is the reason why i guess i actually take sometime to actually find for a post where i can reply to. well i do find it difficult at times to post a discussion. well i feel that to be a good mylot contributer one should not only reply to post with quality but should also be able to post quality discussions for other mylotters to actually respond to. Anyway have a nice day ahead, and happy mylotting. best regards, alvingb

The most difficult thing for me to do is to comment back at the responses that I receive. With having a life outside of mylot and a slow Internet connection it can take me some time to comment on any of the responses that I receive. Plus I tend to get caught up in responding to other peoples discussions, especially when something catches my eye and I want to respond right then...though sometimes I do save it for a later date. Happy mylotting!

I have to say I agree there, it can be hard when there are so many great responses to narrow them down to just one. Many people ha ve a lot of great ideas and I love to hear others opinions on views that I have or advice from others.

i agree with you on that my friend. its not easy to choose the best response specially when the discussion is about simple things and then the response are very good that sometimes you didnt expect it. there are a lot of creative people at mylot that can use words so properly that you will enjoy reading their responses, so its really hard to pick one.

Well the most difficult thing for me is consistently trying to think of a new and fresh subjects to post, becuse it seems like everything has already been posted, and the other thing is trying to stay neutral and avoiding subjects that create drama, I find it a bit difficult becuse a lot of the more deep subjects tend to be a bit more interesting, but they are also, more troublesome, and another thing thats sometimes hard to do is remember all the rules in mylot, but aside from a few occasional dilemmas mylot is a fun place.

I think giving the best response is hard for me too. What makes it so hard, is that all the responses are so good, that I just wish I could give them all a best response, but since we can only give out one, I just read and reread the responses to come to a decision. Another thing I find difficult at times, is finda a discussion to post to, that hasn't been discussed before. There are so many discussions that have been discussed so much, that there really isn't all that much left to say about them. I try to avoid those discussions, however, I will help a new person if they ask for it. All, in all, it is just a great place to be. Well, good luck to you and happy mylotting.

lamp . . being new here I would say that navigating around is the first difficulty one encounters. . . and then once you do trying to understand all the stars and the numbers next to one's name make for some confusion . . so with that said now that I am not so "new" around here one of the most important things to do is to find and make friends that you not only like to talk to and see what they are interested in but friends that help you understand the rules and regulations! I have gotten a few "Best Responses" and was flattered but really did not understand why I was getting them .. but this post of yours cleared that one up for me and so I have been on a mission to go back and look at my past posts and give some of those out. I kinda like (but dont I always) what mydiana has said. .. sometimes it is good not to give "best responses" out, cause great responses keep coming! Geez I love this place! happy MyLotting