What would you do if the love of your life cannot remember you?
By Storm
@jcj_111776 (3216)
Philippines
July 1, 2009 11:50pm CST
That would be very hard for me. But then, I have fought for our relationship before. And I won't let an amnesia stand between us. I will help him remember everyday, the love and the life that we have. If I have to, I'll show him pictures of our family, especially of our two beautiful children. And I truly believe that no amount of amnesia can stop me from getting my husband's memory back.
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7 responses
@jcj_111776 (3216)
• Philippines
6 Jul 09
Hello Lakota...
If ever that happens, I have tons of "artilleries". I've got 3 thick self-made photo albums. These pictures dates back to the day since we started dating. And we've been dating for almost five years before he proposed!Then we have the wedding pictures, the day I got pregnant with our first child. Until our recent photos with our second baby daughter.
@jcj_111776 (3216)
• Philippines
28 Jul 09
Yes.... the power of music. I truly believe in that. I would definitely play my husband's favorite songs, especially the one sang by Barbara Streisand and Bryan Adams. That song is very important to us. Because it so relates to how we met and fell in love.
@createmoney (209)
• Philippines
4 Jul 09
its hurt to me because he/she not remember about our relationship i help him to remember again all...
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@jcj_111776 (3216)
• Philippines
28 Jul 09
It does hurt very much if the love of our lives suddenly wakes up and cannot remember anything about us. They don't want to hurt us but they can't help it. The only thing that we can do is to do everything that we can to bring back those memories that we have shared with them.
@roniroxas (10559)
• Philippines
2 Jul 09
well this is painful, specially on your part of that happens. as for me i am separated from my (ex) husband already so i am more happy if he forgets me lol. but in your case if this happen you should really make sure he remembers you. there are a lot of things that you could do to make him remember you just need to be patient.
@jcj_111776 (3216)
• Philippines
3 Jul 09
I agree roni. A lot of patience brings a lot of good things. I just thought of this a few days back as I was looking at my husband. I suddenly thought what if one day something happens, and the next time he looks at me, he sees a complete stranger. Now, that is a very painful thought. Much, much more if it does happen.
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
3 Jul 09
Hello jcj. If such a thing happens, it is really terrible because I don't want this kind of thing to ever happen to anyone. But you are right to try every possible ways that would make him or her recall what has happened in his or her life so that a normal life would visit them again...
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@jcj_111776 (3216)
• Philippines
6 Jul 09
Hi again william..
Yes, it really is a terrible thing to happen. Just thinking about it, already hurts. The worst thing that can also happen is that, after doing all the possible ways that a person can do to bring back the memories, it still doesn't work. 
Yes, it really is a terrible thing to happen. Just thinking about it, already hurts. The worst thing that can also happen is that, after doing all the possible ways that a person can do to bring back the memories, it still doesn't work. 
@michaeldadona (5684)
• Malaysia
2 Jul 09
What else? I mirrored the similar action. I will focus on new life and no more looking back. Think about the beautiful life in future and I won't let my past life story kills my lovely future life. The main thing is I want to pursue with my new life, why should I put down my water bucket under the dry tap? Nature already given me enough lessons and I really learned from my past history. Once spoken never broken.
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@jcj_111776 (3216)
• Philippines
11 Jul 09
That's another great thing to do. A clean slate for new memories that you can share with her.
@jcj_111776 (3216)
• Philippines
3 Jul 09
Patience does a lot of wonderful things, larish. It's really hard to hold onto it but then, with patience also comes determination.
@JOIEMARVIC (2334)
• Philippines
2 Jul 09
I would definitely feel devastated if ever that will happen. But as the saying goes, only the mind forgets, not the heart, so I will do my very best to make his heart remember that that heart beats for me and only me. I will make happy memories with im again. Start a new life and love life if ever his memories would not come back again.
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@jcj_111776 (3216)
• Philippines
3 Jul 09
But as the saying goes, only the mind forgets, not the heart,[b][/b][u][/u]
You have reminded me of that phrase. I was thinking about almost the same thing but I couldn't remember the exact words. And I like what you have shared. If ever his memories of your life and love with him doesn't come back, you will both create new ones.
