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myLot reputation of 83/100. dante_off (124)   ranked 3,931 out of 37,571 in life5 months ago

After the exams....Its this long summer holiday which has left me totally down.

All was well before a month, everyone was good with me...but now why everyone's avoiding me...
No one phones me except for the stupid ads, even when I try to call them they avoid me posing for some work.

Once I saw one of my friends out of a coffee shop, I call him over the phone from opposite side of the street....he told me he was in the office for some loan work..and in next 5 mins he walks into the shop with a girl....

I do not know what to do all alone..being let down by friends...

What should i do to make this loneliness disappear...?I dont know yet....

Anybody who could help....

 
 
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tags:  life, alone, let down, frustrated, lies
 
1. myLot reputation of 86/100. bamrahkirti (1058)   ranked 2,067 out of 37,571 in life   5 months ago

So you have got fair weather friends,but do not worry.
Try to join some hobby classes if you are a creative person by nature.
If you are fond of reading,read some books or novels which may broaden your horizons.
Enroll yourself for some short term courses which you want to do.
Help your parents in their routines. happy
I think these things can really make you busy. thumbup


myLot reputation of 83/100. dante_off (124)   ranked 3,931 out of 37,571 in life  5 months ago

I really feel sorry for my friends...
About short term courses, I was thinking of doing one but was stuck due to some unwanted work at home....

And yes helping parents out in their routines was a superb suggestion....
It helped me a lot...

And hey...Thanks....

~Cheerio~

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2. myLot reputation of 85/100. babshish (599)   ranked 3,699 out of 37,571 in life   5 months ago

Hi Dear, sad to hear about that, but I guess you are at right place, here you will find lots of friends and can spend your time here on mylot. About your friends avoiding you, just igonre them if you are right at your place. I guess they do not deserve your friendsship. Think positive and try to make good friends and be with them when they need you. Time will change and you will surely not lonely, to start with sending you the firend's request please accept it . Happy myloting. happy


myLot reputation of 83/100. dante_off (124)   ranked 3,931 out of 37,571 in life  5 months ago

I dont know what mistakes have I done....But "whatever happens, happens with a reason and for good..."

Yes mylot and all of you hav provided much support, I did not know what to do in such a depressed state...

I am trying to read novels, and other interesting stuff...

Thanks for your time buddy....

~Cheerio~

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3. myLot reputation of 82/100. sk66rc (2214)   ranked 5,599 out of 37,571 in life   5 months ago

Being alone is not that bad of a thing as you make it sound like. Take some time to do the things you like. Go to a movie by yourself, go read a book, or something. I live with someone now but every now & then, she kicks me out of the house just so I can spend a day by myself. She understands I need some alone time. I've had few years of being by myself before I got into a relationship, too. It's not all that bad. It's nice to have companion of some close friends but it's not all that it's crack up to be. Don't live your life based on other people. Be yourself & goto a coffee shop & have some quite time to yourself. Pick up & travel if you have free time. Who knows, you might meet some interesting people. Join a club, take up on dance classes like tango class or jass class. If you go there alone, I'm pretty sure they'll partner you up with someone. Make new friends, meet new people. Get out there & get involved. Volunteer to do things around your neighborhood.


myLot reputation of 83/100. dante_off (124)   ranked 3,931 out of 37,571 in life  5 months ago

Yours are pretty realistic suggestion. I am really trying to get involved in chores...
Recently I had gained interest in photoshop, spending time with it...
And about travel, times there but I am pretty low on cash.

Thanks for your time...
You helped me at a really depressed time..Thanks again...

~Cheerio~


myLot reputation of 82/100. sk66rc (2214)   ranked 5,599 out of 37,571 in life  5 months ago

There are plenty of things that doesn't involved money, or at least very little... I used to spend hours at a coffee shop with my laptop, looking up stuff & places I wanted to visit. I came across 2 places I really wanted to go. I was having fun planning out those trips for following year. It actually helped me set a goal & follow through with it, and all that just because I was bored one day. Then I joined few blog sites & forum sites about those places & started to talk to few people from around that area. I got a lot of suggestions from the locals & a year later, I was finally able to take that trip because I started saving money since I found out about it. It helped me save money & work towards a goal. Internet does help if used correctly. Look stuff up, places you wanna go. Find out how much it coasts & find places where you can join up & start talking about the places. Even here in mylot, if there's a place you wanna visit, start up a discussion & get people involved. Ask for little tips. You may not get a lot of responses but you never know, you may end up setting up a goal & start working towards saving enough money to take that trip. And in the process, you make some "on line" friends to talk to when you're down. And when you happened to be in a social setting, it gives you something to talk about. Share your goals, regardless of how small or big, people will find them interesting. Even if it's with one friend, go to a bar & have a beer, talk it over. People around you might chime in, and if you don't mind that, then start up a conversation with others. Draw people in. Sounds like you're a social person, or people person. find a way to meet new people. Even if you end up not taking the trip, you might end up with few friends in the process.

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4. myLot reputation of 80/100. deewinc (3085)   ranked 3,057 out of 37,571 in life   5 months ago

There are two things that can make a man busy! 1. job 2.women! & it seems that your friends are either on those fields.it dosent matter that much! keep yourself busy doing some window shopping&hanging out..you will find new friends soon..you be better soon


myLot reputation of 83/100. dante_off (124)   ranked 3,931 out of 37,571 in life  5 months ago

Hey I met with two old school mates yesterday, and I am hanging out with them...feels great anyway...

Thanks for your suggestion and time...

~Cheerio~

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5. myLot reputation of 97/100. busky5 (2033)   ranked 3,564 out of 37,571 in life   5 months ago

I don't care if i aren't wrong. You should care who sincere you, i will try to do
everything that isn't boring such as write discussion with mylot, face book, msn, or go to shopping these to me out of time in a day.


myLot reputation of 83/100. dante_off (124)   ranked 3,931 out of 37,571 in life  5 months ago

Yeah you are probably correct.....
But its quite difficult for me to just simply ignore them right away means I am unable to just erase the past...

Well I will try my best...
And Hey Thanks for your time...

~Cheerio~

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6. myLot reputation of 98/100. jules67 (1863)   ranked 6,684 out of 37,571 in life   5 months ago

Once in a while, I do get lonely. Sometimes what I do is just sleep, or read something, or chat. It amazes me how you can build friendship with people over the net. Your friends maybe that busy that is why they cannot be with you. It really happens. But one thing that you can do best is to pray. It helps to ease the pain of loneliness when you pray.


myLot reputation of 83/100. dante_off (124)   ranked 3,931 out of 37,571 in life  5 months ago

A very realistic suggestion out there...
Thanks and I do pray....but i will concentrate even more....

Thanks for ur time!
I really appreciate yoour concern!

~Cheerio~

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7. jojhane (36)   ranked 19,646 out of 37,571 in life   5 months ago

Hello Dante your feeling alone? why you should not pray and talk to God, go to church or spend sometimes with God? Dante your not alone god is with us always.. Everything in this world is not forever this is just an ordinary one. . Okey just pray to God


myLot reputation of 83/100. dante_off (124)   ranked 3,931 out of 37,571 in life  5 months ago

Thanx jojhane....4 ur concern!
Your suggestion is gr8.
And am praying to God to light my path and guide me in this dark hour...

~Cheerio~

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8. mikol911 (30)   ranked 32,534 out of 37,571 in life   5 months ago

If you feel alone make a good cup of coffee and read a good book (like james Patterson) because books sometimes make you realize that your not the only one feeling alone and betrayed in life.


myLot reputation of 83/100. dante_off (124)   ranked 3,931 out of 37,571 in life  5 months ago

Yeah I hav that habit of reading novels, used to get totally immersed with them while reading Harry Potter series,Sherlock Holmes and others...

Good Idea!
~Cheerio~

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9. myLot reputation of 81/100. ilovepiesomuch (115)   ranked 13,346 out of 37,571 in life   5 months ago

You call such people friends? They arn't even worth calling friends!!! Your best mate will be the Internet, MyLot, You are at here. Spend your time here, discuss here, MAKE FRIENDS IN HERE. At least they don't avoid you! See if you make a friend on MyLot, After that post a discussion, There is 99% chance, that he will respond to it! Don't make such friends who don't care about you! Just ignore them, Don't help them if they don't help you... Oops, sorry said the wrong thing, Help others, but not people who just don't care!

Happy MyLotting Mate, Make friends out here, Make money out here.

I Love Pie So Much


myLot reputation of 83/100. dante_off (124)   ranked 3,931 out of 37,571 in life  5 months ago

Mate I think you are correct, mylot has given immense support at time of need...
I am making friends out here too....

Thanks for your concern...

~Cheerio~

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10. myLot reputation of 89/100. imgrandma12 (333)   ranked 3,451 out of 37,571 in life   5 months ago

you need friends and I am here if you add me thats so sad my prayers are with you


myLot reputation of 83/100. dante_off (124)   ranked 3,931 out of 37,571 in life  5 months ago

Thanks for your concern mate....

~Cheerio~

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