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sksrin (43)   ranked 2,241 out of 6,559 in student7 months ago

do u think study and love relation can be easily handled simultaneously being a student...???

 
 
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megha_gupta (81) response was accepted on 7/4/2009.
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1. myLot reputation of 91/100. magicalangel (470)   ranked 571 out of 6,559 in student   7 months ago

No. I do not think both can go simultaneously specially when you are too young to decide about your future goals. I have one friend who was in love with a girl in 12th grade. It was long distance relationship. That girl disappeared suddenly because she was in 10th. That girl stopped contact with this guy and got good marks whereas that guy got fail in 12th because he was worried about that girl and their relationship.


sksrin (43)   ranked 2,241 out of 6,559 in student  7 months ago

Ya U r right yaar ...and i thing...generally boys hd to pay...rarely a girl losses in this game of love(as far as study is conserned)..i hd seen a no. of grls who improved their performance in studies after falling in love..
and boys.. well... a topper begs for passing after falling in love....

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2. myLot reputation of 80/100. deewinc (3085)   ranked 1,138 out of 6,559 in student   7 months ago

yes..behind every man there is a woman..and i think having my girlfriend around made me to work hard as behind my mind i was thinking about a future for us& how awful it would be if i dint have a good job to provide her with everything she needed..


sksrin (43)   ranked 2,241 out of 6,559 in student  7 months ago

bU r right buddy but i dont think STUDENTS are Mature enough..Wat say????

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3. myLot reputation of 80/100. deewinc (3085)   ranked 1,138 out of 6,559 in student   7 months ago

yes..behind every man there is a woman..and i think having my girlfriend around made me to work hard as behind my mind i was thinking about a future for us& how awful it would be if i dint have a good job to provide her with everything she needed..

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4. megha_gupta (81)   7 months ago

Even I don't think both can be handelled well. Because somewhere oue studies are affected. I think a person should get into a serious relationship only after you have completed your grade 12 and are set for a clear line ahead. When you are in school you need to think about your future and there is no point ruining it by getting into serious love affairs. I mean you should have friends, hang out together but nothing serious, first set yourself in life and then take any decision abt any kind of relationship.


sksrin (43)   ranked 2,241 out of 6,559 in student  7 months ago

yaar Megha i agree with u tht both cannt be handled..but love just happens...yaar.. and when it happens...carrer,future,,work becomes secondry... i knw..its wrong...but believe me it happens


megha_gupta (81)  7 months ago

Yea... I know that it happened with me and I lost a bit on my studies but now(post break-up) I am getting back on my track.
I can understand what you are going through and there's nothing wrong in it but just try and stop think about your ex. You are just making yourself worse. Take care.:)

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5. myLot reputation of 49/100. Wink24 (140)   ranked 2,752 out of 6,559 in student   7 months ago

Hello..
I think, it depends on the two person involved in the relationship, if they know their real goal and focus to it (which is to finish studies) then i think it's okay to be committed since they know their real goal so though they're on a relationship, they still have their limitations among themselves and will not do anything wrong.
But, if both of them are very intimate and can't control their so much love to each other, then better not to be committed, because if they still do and that's the case, then there might be a possibility that something will be done that they might regret later on.

So to conclude, it really depends on the person.
Happy mylotting.


sksrin (43)   ranked 2,241 out of 6,559 in student  7 months ago

hmmm.....wink24 sir so ur on save side...hnnn..intelligent guy...
bt still bt u think..can be or not

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6. myLot reputation of 79/100. crazynified (176)   ranked 5,712 out of 6,559 in student   7 months ago

it's possible if done right. in fact i know friends who are doing well in their studies because of love..

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7. naresh_coolking (40)   ranked 5,694 out of 6,559 in student   7 months ago

thats the most difficult multi tasking.i mean a boy may impress a gal by his academics.wat if the boy is not that good in academics.well if a gal come into his life at this point thats gonna be really disastrous .but it depends upon the guy or gal anyway.they should have self control and one should not be pestering the other always .and in short with great time management you can succeed.but dont ever compromise the your studies.


sksrin (43)   ranked 2,241 out of 6,559 in student  7 months ago

MULTI-TASKING...like the word u used....
so r u mulitaskar................


naresh_coolking (40)   ranked 5,694 out of 6,559 in student  7 months ago

definitely not and i know that means trouble .i am a guy who has little self control and knows nothing about time management


sksrin (43)   ranked 2,241 out of 6,559 in student  6 months ago

you are not alone brooooooo............

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8. myLot reputation of 98/100. larish (1429)   ranked 1,527 out of 6,559 in student   7 months ago

Yes, I have a friend who have made the relationship successful. After 10 years of being married with 2 kids. I may say that they have nurture a very strong relationship. But in contrary, I have also know someone who didn't make it through the storm, they had a kid and both party are now married to other people. I think my answer in here is it depends on the personality of each person. Happy myloting

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9. myLot reputation of 85/100. colydf (641)   ranked 219 out of 6,559 in student   6 months ago

I do think so. I think if you cannot take a balance between study and love, it maybe quite difficult for you to do so. For example, you spent whole with your boyfriend to go shopping, to travel, or somethig like that, and spent little time on study, then it will turn out bad for you. And instead, if you learn to make some schedule for yourself, not let love take you too much time, and remember to study every day, then it is possible.


sksrin (43)   ranked 2,241 out of 6,559 in student  6 months ago

you have a point............

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10. myLot reputation of 79/100. amanbhatheja676 (137)   ranked 6,219 out of 6,559 in student   6 months ago

Hi....
Accoording to me all depends on oneself.Love just happens,no force takes place....it just happens..................!
And it never sees are we a student or......Ya,its true somewhere that love and studies cannot be handled simultaneously,because if we get more into love,our studies get affected a lot...and if in case we hav a fight we the person we r in love....we just ignore our studies....this is natural too.I am saying this because it has actually happened with me,but now everything is fine.
But if i take my case,i dnt accept this that they cannoy be handled together.As because,the one whom i love is very sweet but very strict in the case of studies,and if i dnt study,i knw he'll scold me.He only says that its fine we love each other,but your studies are more important to u and to me too.And the one who loves will wait for you......!
I think they can be handled together,if you are true and you know how to handle your life.Because we can't just roam around saying that i am student and i am not supposed to get into 'love chakkar'.......it will just come when it has to,and you cant ignore it too,just as the uncalled guest......!


sksrin (43)   ranked 2,241 out of 6,559 in student  6 months ago

hmmm....agreed for love being called UNCALLED GUEST...
yaa true...yaar vrthing fight..romance...even Care also Distractsss

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