Are you a victim?

United States
July 6, 2009 4:00pm CST
in our world evryone has things that happen to them but some of us began to be the victim in almost every situation. Others of us just will not allow life to make us a victim. I myself am a fighter. If you tell me "no" or i run into a brickwall I fine a way to get things done. My quetions is do you offten feel like a victim? If so share your story maybe someone can help.
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@Sandra1952 (6047)
• Spain
6 Jul 09
Bad things happen in life, and we are all victims at some stage, but how we deal with what happens makes the difference. I have had lots of things happen that were not my fault and that I had no control over, so I suppose you could say I was a victim. However, I believe that what doesn't kill you will make you stronger. I've come through an abusive first marriage, and I am now happily married to my second husband. Life is wonderful, and my family has accepted my life choices and respect me for it. Nobody needs to be a victim. Instead of trying to blame someone for your situation, look for a way out of it that allows you to retain your self respect and move on. It's not easy, but it can be done.
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