This is a serious matter.. What would you do if you were in her shoe.

@lynboobsy11 (11343)
Philippines
July 8, 2009 7:53am CST
She is a friend of my best friend she tell us her story when I came to see my best friend. She cried and cried and don't know what to do, I felt her pain she really loves the guy. They were sweethearts before back when they were teenagers, they both love each other both are first love. They separated after graduation, and since then no communication at all. They began to have their own family. The girl has a broken marriage she has 1 child and been separated for almost a year now. Last month they meet again. The feeling of love is still there, she also found out that the man is still happily married with children. He said that he is willing to have her again since she has been separated, even though she's been with her wife in other words he wants to be her mistress. We been shock about her story, the guy promised her that now that they saw each other again no one will separated them again, the guy knew that they were soul mates that they are the one who will be together for ever. She really loves the guy and don't know what to do. She know it is a sin being a mistress. We really don't know what we will advise to her we know that they love each other so much but how they can be together if the guy is not free? I know this is not a kinda question to you mylotters but I think this is not only a drama or a simple love story it may happen to us also. What about if we were in her shoe what you will do? Only honest opinion guys I can share your thoughts on her. Thanks
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@Sherry12 (2472)
• United States
9 Jul 09
That is a very sad situation. I would advise her to not be involved with a married man. I don't think she will find true happiness in such a situation. She will always be in 2nd place to his wife and his kids. I know it will break her heart, but she needs to be strong. She will find the right person for her if she waits.
@Jill22 (263)
• Philippines
8 Jul 09
If I were the girl, since I really love the guy and I can see that the guy still love her family then I think its better to just forget about the said love she has for the guy. Adultery is bad! She should understand also cause the guy have kids.