would you get freak out if someone said "you gain weight?"

I wouldnt mind too much if someone said i gained weight. Now if they told me i was super fat and needed to hop on a treadmill, then i might get a little touchy. My husband said that i need to gain weight because i look like an ethiopian. Everyone else says im not that skinny, but i could gain a few pounds. When i had my daughter, i dropped a lot of weight really fast. I didnt even exercise, it just kind of fell off of me. I think if i was overweight i would be happy. I would maybe have some curves then haha. I was the one in high school that got made fun of for being flat chested and having no butt. At least the big girls didnt have to worry about that. They got more dates then i did. And at least when you have a few extra pounds, you can lose them easier than putting them back on. At least for me anyways. Its so hard to gain weight. Ive tried, my metabolism is just too fast. I have to eat every 2 hours just to keep my blood sugar up.

i think i'm so used to that would it doesn't bother me anymore. i don't know but every time i see people that i haven't seen for years they always say i gained weight. and truly i did. when i was younger, i had a good body. i wasn't overweight, yet i wasn't skinny too. however, i have been lazy in taking care of my body so i gained some extra pounds. now, i'm making effort to loose weight. i bought a bike so that i'll have regular exercise. it feels really good if you are doing something to get in shape. it's an added bonus if you enjoy doing it too.

i'd laugh in their face becasue since i because raw vegan all i do is slowly loose weight. first it was faster, but now very slowly. i think 4-5 lb later i'll stop loosing weight at all because that's my perfect weight. within last half a year i lost about 15 lb so i'm very happy with my weight:) the best thing is i can eat so many foods and not care about calories...

I had been struggling for weight loss since long back.I do exercise, dieting,meditation and what not.It's a kind of punishment for me since more than half of the day i am just planning what to eat and what not to eat leaving very few time for myself to enjoy.When there is a slight decrease in my weighing scale i am the happiest person you can ever see.For a person who is really working hard should be supported now and then to keep up the dedication...but there are few people on earth who don't really seem to understand my struggle.These people are the ones who keep on giving advises on weight loss.I get very frustrated sometimes,why on earth do they exist.