Being single or being married>>>

I feel you should really choose that answer yourself, but i would love to be married over being single. I would like to wake up in my lovers arms knowing that we would last forever more instead of waking up myself and being alone throughout the day. I would like someone with me to make me happy and laugh when i am about to cry. Have someone to do things with knowing they would be by my side no matter what it is. Choose wisely. It is your life.

Honestly I would prefer to married.. But I am not right now... lack of medical insurance if I was to get married right now.. But that is what I am use too... Got married when I was 17 and got divorced when I last September, wow its almost been a year.. True people have told me to not worry about it and not to push it, so I do not make the same mistakes that I did the first time around.. Well their is logic and there is the emotions of the heart.. Some base their decisions on one or the other; but when they are both the same.. The leap of faith is worth it..

Are you making the right decision to go to the next step my friend? Is this person the one that completes your life? The one that you want to wake up next to for the rest of time? Are you willing to accept her down falls, the way she is... and not just hope to change certain things about her over time?.. Believe me that does not happen, a person will only change if they are willing to do it for them self... Personal experience has taught me that; not something easy to accept but that is the truth.. Another question?? Is she willing to accept you for who you are, without trying to change who you are?

Granted marriage does change a person... With somethings it is like over night; like they say in the movies.. But other things may change over time with life.. A marriage takes work to keep it flowing; do not want to say it is a job.. that's not the right words.. but if you do not work on it each and every day, the two of you can start going in different directions; until one day you look at your partner and see a totally different person.. Open communication, honesty, and compassion is needed in every relationship, especially marriage..

it depends on your priorities in life. if you enjoy being with friends often, well, partnered life is gonna be hard for you. im gonna show you tabbed reasons why you should pick that category so that you will be the one deciding for yourself. and just so u know, im currently single.haha

SINGLE-life benefits:
> no curfew (unless your parents set you one)
> no restrictions on your manner of clothing (unless youre conservative)
> can go wherever you want without asking for someone's permission
> you can date two dates on the same day
> you can flirt (these are for those who are naturally born flirts, i consider myself one)
> you can have more time for personal solitude
> you can gain more time with your family
> more time for yourself
> more time for personal development


MARRIED life benefits:

> you get to enjoy the comfort brought about by your partner as well as kids if you are gonna have a bunch
> you have a bestfriend and a lover in the form of your husband/wife.
> you have discipline, you are disciplined and you are disciplining you partner as well
> you have a partner to grow with you, physically, morally, psychologically and socially
> someone is there to hold you whenever your friends are out of reach
> you get to be more responsible
> you get to be selfless (it depends if you abuse that one)
> you get a discount from the government taxes coz ur married.haha
> you are secure because you know you are being loved by someone in a more special way

------------now these are just some of the most common benefits. as for me, currently im enjoying my life coz im independent. but of course, id like to be on that state someday where i am being comforted, loved and secured by someone. for now, married life is not my priority, but soon it will be.

I prefer being married. Because at some point of time you will need someone who understands to you in and out, will be with you no matter what ever it the situation. With whom you can share your good and bad times. Of course family is always with you, but wife/husband is something different. In married life you need to adjust with your better half and that is good for the relationship, you make some adjustment in your nature and your better half will make some. There will be fights and quarrel between both sometimes, but that is also healthy for the relationship. But if you are bachelor, then I don't think you will be enjoying your life, you will only boost about enjoying, but something will be surely missing in life.

hi helscream. i always want to be a happy family. without a partner in life and without kids, you can never consider yourself alone as a family. so my answer would be married life. when a person is married, complete with kids, one of the benefits of it is when you grow older, there will surely be at least one person who will always be at your side the attend to all your needs. but of course, we should always anticipate the fact that kids will also grew up and will eventually look or build their own family. to everyone whom i know that is planning to get married, i always tell them to be prepared. i am not telling not to get into married life but i say that it is so unpredictable and complicated to get into. i don't think love is the best answer for getting in to marriage, but i tell them, singles, if you have enough money, a regular income, then go on. i've been married for twenty years and i know how it takes having a family, a bigger family, with no enough money. especially in this crisis, everyone should think of it, just for practical reason, stay single if you are not ready... neil

hi helscream,

i love my status now, i am single but taken, lol.. but i also want to have a family with my own.. but i am afraid to do it so.. well, maybe in the near future..!! i hope i will not be miserable when i will be marrying this guy...

janebeth.

hi helscream,
personally i would not like to stay alone, remaining single one can have lots of money and similar but what if you are not happy with your life, what is money when there is no happiness in life, i want to get married and lead a happy life as a nice family, and yeah i am lazy, i need someone to remind me of things( which my wife will help with)...lol...

Well.This is a little depth question for me.Cause i am too young to think about it.But personly i want being married.I will find one who loves me and care about me and we wake up i can see his face i will feel safe.Maybe someday it gonna happen Haha We should belive that..Marriage is a wonderful miracle

i think being single 4 ever is not correct. every1 needs sum1 2 spend his or her life happily. but there is olways some right tym 2 do each work.. u shud not get married so early according 2 me... marriage has a lot of responsibilities associated wid it.. njoy ur lyf 1st.. get capable 2 earn 4 ur family den get married so dat u can keep every1 happpy...

well i think it depend on the partner if married. how the partner handle and how he look our things.