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Congratulations. While in a bit of puzzling, you must be overwhelmed by the pride of entering the university after years of hard work. Russian is a special major you have chosen for your career. With the development of the mutual relationship between china and russia, specialists in russian is very much needed, but better to select a second major like economy and politics so that you can play a better role than just an interpreter.

The ECNU is a good school and convenient for living. Enjoy your new journey.

Congrats. Challenge your self and don't think that you can't. Everything is possible you can do it! Relax and you'll be fine. I advise that you enjoy and feels like it is a normal day to start with. Be confident and face the world. Let your wings fly. It's normal for your parents not agree to have you boyfriend yet. But let you show them that you are trustworthy and can continue your studies till the end. You can talk to them. Never priorities to have boyfriend instead focus on your studies and let the day pass and who knows during your journey he will come. So goodluck and god bless you.

Honestly I believe the student community is the most easiest community to get along with . They are not bothered by anything or any one and they don't differentiate according to caste or nationality. So you can easily get along with your class mates. As far as learning Russian language goes you can easily learn it, only thing being that you would have to start from basics and try to learn about the Russian culture and you would learn Russian language easily.

hello lonelylucie,
There's no way you can not cope all of your fears. Indeed you can do all of that. You have all that you need - brain, confidence, perseverance and wisdom. And of course the look. Having all of these, will help you attain your goal and dreams easily. Just focus in all what you do and believe in yourself. Good luck to you.

At first it will be tough for u 2 mingle wth new ppl..with matter of time u will definitely move on and gel wth them properly!!! coming 2 russian i knw it is tough but the only way u can get it is hardwork

congrats and friend please chill!!!! u will get 2 adjust properly very soon and den even u wont remember dese tms dat u wer afraid 2 enter a new lyf..

First and foremost, congratulations on finishing your senior schooling. The mere fact that you made it makes me realize that you are a strong individual and I believe you can make it. There will be bumps and obstacles along the way but if you stay steadfast and steady, you can muddle through it all. Yes, your chosen language may be difficult but with perseverance and hard work, I know you'll be able to learn them.

I can sympathize with your parents, you are their 'little' girl, even if you think you are already old enough, and having boys around you or having a boyfriend means you're growing up, no parent I think can give up their kids, childhood that easily. And another, maybe your parents fear that if you have a boyfriend it can interfere with your studies. For that I guess you can only try to reassure them, but if it doesn't work. well there's nothing we can do about that and you just have to wing it.

As you've said this is a new journey. Then take it as such. An adventure for you and how it all ends will generally depend on you and you alone. No one can decide for you. Not your teachers, friends, boyfriend even your parents, only you. And whatever you decide...Good Luck I know you can do!

hi lonelylucie,

do not go with boy friends,first you concentrate on your studies and obey your parents words and be polite with them do not lie with them,all these will turn you good in your life, this is only suggestions as a mylot friend iam suggesting obey or disobey is left to you have a nice day