Trying to be perfect for him ...felt not good enough for the man  |
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 Ladies dont you realise .. there are alot of man who are not perfect either, they just use their "male ego", strength, machoness .. and their concept of "LION KING" to make us feel that we are not good enough for them ..
I know some who are not confident to lead a life on their own that they fall into the trap of trying to be perfect for this man
yes occasionally i have done that too .. and I regret it .. very much, just to keep the family united we have to play DUMB
share your thoughts
cheers
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1.  dolphin2406 (693) | 5 months ago |  Hi, nobody is perfect but sometimes we have to be careful of our actions or words we say so that we don;t irritate our partner. Usually the man cares less if he hurts you or says something you don;t like. But then when you do something he'll be there ready to mark that out. Sometimes I think we have to stand up otherwise he'll treat you like a carpet. I believe that in a relationship both are equal and there is no servant, tasks should be shared and man and woman do their share.
Have a nice day!
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| sanjana_aslam (1850) | 5 months ago | hi dolphin,
sometimes i feel that it is only our thought that equality is the best quality .. because where i come from .. the mother in law (a woman herself) has the attitute to make us feel that we should serve (like a servant) to our husbands
but i am lucky although my mother in law has that habit, my husband is a good husband to me at our own home but we have to pretend like i am a servant when we visit them
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| dolphin2406 (693) | 5 months ago | So you are lucky to have found a nice husband! | |
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| 2. infinity63 (3) | 5 months ago |  It's not always that they aren't confident to lead a life on their own. I am one of those women who isn't good enough for the man I love. But we have sexual, differences that after seventeen years together can no longer be breached or forgotten.
I have tried hard to be what he needs me to be believing that if I loved him as much as I did that some how I would be able to " make up" for the differences.
I have given all I could tried everyday to be "what he needs" it only ended up making him feel like a monster and I a failure.
But I don't think he is "perfect" because I am not good enough for him. I think he is perfect in spite of his flaws and cracks, it's his flaws that allow room for mine.
Even if we end up going completely separate directions in our lives. I know I wasn't good enough for him because it was sex that was our problem, but he ended up leaving for someone else to take care of all aspects not just that.
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| 3. maverick_tarun (52) | 5 months ago | Hey everyone r not like wat u think..may be ppl around u are like dat!!!! never ever judge any one till u knw them properly...... | |
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| sanjana_aslam (1850) | 5 months ago | hi tarun .. you judging me or me judging you???
this is a discussion ... we are here to give our opinion and to share our side of comments ..
If you have experience with this people you talking about .. share it to MYLOT .. not just say I am judging ..
If you followed my discussion and read everything, you could note that i praised my husband ..
have a good day to you ... and grow up | |
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| 4. aminul8427 (1241) | 5 months ago |  Hi Sanjana! Although I am not a lady but I can tell you are very right in your logic. Have very very lovely days.
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