Would you allow your children to explore and study other religions?  |
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A little knowledge is a dangerous thing - so the saying goes. But would you still allow your children to explore and study other religions. Let us say that the children are at an impressionable age of 16, 17, or 18.
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1. Chispa514 (598) | 5 months ago | I would, simply because of the fact that I was brought up with the expression "you learn from your mistakes". I was born and raised a catholic, and there's alot of times I wanted to change religion because there was things that catholics believe in that i don't agree with, and other religions seemed "better' in a sense. My parents allowed me to search within myself and decide if I wanted to stay a catholic or convert to something else. I have since decided to stay a catholic, but if my children wish to study other religions and see if taht's what better suits their personality, then I'll be fine with it, as long as they don't come with the thinking that one religion is better than another and try to force their views down anyone's throat so to speak.
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eileenleyva (797) | 5 months ago | Your search must have taught you something that kept you in Catholicism. Would you tell that to your children?
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2. raynejasper (925) | 5 months ago | ..hi.. for me, yes.. But I have to caution them that all religions are different and that in every religion, there will always be weaknesses.. no religion is ever perfect.. and I have to make it clear to them that religion is not the way to go to heaven (I believe in heaven).. It is our own personal relationship with God.. that's why I myself don't believe in religions preaching that their religion is the real one because I never encountered any religion in the Bible that God designated as the true one.. It's not bad to explore so that they will know where they want to fit in..
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Chispa514 (598) | 5 months ago | Couldnt have said it better myself
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eileenleyva (797) | 5 months ago | Probably you have to reread the Bible in its entirety. I am doing so right now. I am still in Esther. I read slow because of my eyes. But if I remember right, somewhere in the gospel, Christ Himself instituted religion. I will read and tell you. Buzz me up one time in the far future, ha ha.
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3. krajibg (2504) | 5 months ago | Hi,
16, 17, 18 are quite ripe age and children are much comprehensive these days. Hence allowing them to explore other language and study as well would be most reasonable venture.
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krajibg (2504) | 4 months ago | Oh sorry, it was a lapse change it to 'religion' please.
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| 4. abragar03 (7) | 5 months ago | Yes, I would allow it. I have gone to catholic schools all my life. But because my parents weren't devout catholics, the religion was not forced upon me. That made me open-minded to learning about other religions. Exploring is not a bad thing. It actually makes our children more aware and knowledgeable about what's out there. It makes them not be so close-minded, like saying that "my religion is the right religion". I think we all should be given a choice as to what religion we want to follow, that is, unless it has cultic influences. I, myself, have tried to learn about Buddhism and Taoism, even New Age. But it has brought me full circle and now I am a Christian.
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eileenleyva (797) | 5 months ago | Many times, the search and the approach to one's study do not actually lead to the right track. The cult could be powerful. What if the child stops there? What if the child is not intelligent enough?
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lotterylover (4747) | 4 months ago | I tried to warn them of cults following a one man religion. They are absolutely dangerous as they do a mind control exercise on you and don't let you out of sight until you belong to them. Many things you need you warn you children about before they reach 5th grade because they will most likely listen to you better than waiting until they are past 5th grade.
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5. lotterylover (4747) | 5 months ago | I consider evolution a type of religion because it was the belief of one man. This was forced on my children while they were going to school. I just tired to see that they had a firm foundation based on the Bible. Actually, one time when my wife got tired of my daughters nasty bedroom she took everything out of the bedroom except the Mormon Bible. My daughter was in about the 5th grade. I don't know why my wife decided to do that since she doesn't believe in that religion but she did. After reading a few chapters my daughter commented that a 3rd grader could have written that book. Funny thing was from what I gathered, Joseph Smith did drop out of school when he was in the 3rd grade. The Catholic church says that if you give them your child until he is 8 years old he will remain a Catholic. I truly believe that if you raise your child properly in your faith he will remain. The BIG word here is properly. If it is done wrong, he will leave.
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eileenleyva (797) | 5 months ago | A firm foundation. Okay. I know so many who had drifted to other religions in their middle age...
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lotterylover (4747) | 4 months ago | It could be their foundation was built on sand.
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eileenleyva (797) | 4 months ago | The family I had in mind were exemplary believers. They were a sight to see during the Sabbath day services. One day, half of the family just made a complete turn around. It was a total surprise. The children were given the best possible religious instruction. It left the family divided though. The parents and the daughters changed beliefs. The sons remained staunch and unyielding followers of their faith.
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lotterylover (4747) | 4 months ago | That is interesting to say the least as it is usually the boys who drift off. Something was amiss there. We can't always know what is going on in a family by the appearance they give you at church. Even pastor have shocked the daylights out of us. It seems like there is a verse in the Bible that says, "Teach a child in the ways he should go and he will not depart from it." I found it in Prov.22:6 For a child to depart probably means the parent didn't practice what they preached or for some other unknown reason that only God knows. You do have to be careful who you allow your children to be friends with. They also need alot of prayers. I even remember reading somewhere that you should ask God to have Jesus put the names of your children on His breastplate so if anything happens to you He will keep interceding in their behalf. Even though my daughters are grown I still pray for them to remain faithful.
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eileenleyva (797) | 4 months ago | I agree hook, line, and sinker! Yehey!
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6. phildozer (149) | 5 months ago | Its better that they do something that theyre truly passionate about, rather that just pay lip service to the church that they have inherited from you. Its natural for teens around this age to start to question what theyve been told for so many years, and chances are if you allow them to explore their options, they will either find one that they can find harmony with, or they will realize that the religion that you chose is truly the best fit for them
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FundamentalCharlie (356) | 5 months ago | So then, by this reasoning, if a person is passionate about killing, they should rather murder than abide by the law through lip service?
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phildozer (149) | 5 months ago | You do have a very quick wit charlie, but I think we both know that those two issue are hardly interchangable. Think about it like you would a career. If your father groomed you to take over his store one day when he retired, you would probably be overjoyed that your father has taken such an interest in your well being, however what if running this store did not make you happy? what if doing what your father did, didnt fulfill your needs to grow and experience life. Surely you wouldnt want your kids perhaps resenting you for not allowing them to discover the world on their own.
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eileenleyva (797) | 5 months ago | Hi phildozer, we would not have become adults had we not gone to some extensive study about the facts of life. More or less, we know already what is in store for our children had they, say, choose to dwell a little longer on one teaching. They, in their impressionable age, can be persuaded to embrace another faith. Adults are supposed to be guides. The children are our responsibility.
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7. FundamentalCharlie (356) | 5 months ago | You are talking about middle to late teens, so the answer for me is YES... with a proviso...
IF YOU HAVE GIVEN THEM A FIRM GROUNDING IN TRUTH FIRST. Here's where the fur starts to fly. Truth can only be found in the Bible, (I can feel the wrath of many already). By the time a child is in their teens, a solid foundation should have already been established.
My nephew, who is really like my son, told me that he wanted to explore all the world's religions to compare them. He was about 10 at the time, and I encouraged him to do so but insisted that if he was going to seriously consider them, that he should start with Christianity.
After all, if you are going to delve into comparative theology, shouldn't you use the one that was given to us by the one and only living God through His Son Jesus Christ? If you have a sound Biblical foundation, you can easily defeat all the other world religions. In fact, usually they will defeat themselves if you know how to properly evaluate them.
If you had a third grade class go out and draw straight lines in the dirt so that you could compare them to see which was the straightest, wouldn't you need to KNOW what a straight line was supposed to look like?
God Bless
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phildozer (149) | 5 months ago | You seem to be very devoted to your faith, which is fine, its your right to do so, but isnt it also your nephew's right to actually choose what religion he wants, rather than you telling him what the "right" religion is. You say he can research religion, but it seems to me that if he had chose to say, convert to islam, you would needless to say be a bit frustrated? If you tell that same class of 3rd graders all the answers, how will they ever learn to find the answers for themselves?
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eileenleyva (797) | 5 months ago | Hi FundamentalCharlie, isn't it a bit prejudicial if you do that? Precisely why I am wary because teenagers are very impressionable.
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FundamentalCharlie (356) | 4 months ago | Why prejudicial??? He has to start somewhere right? Since I have the overwhelming conviction that Christianity IS the truth, it only makes sense that I would want him to start there. If he found anything that could shake the Christian faith, I would love to hear it.
It seems easier to start with the truth than to spend years exploring myths and lies and one day arriving where I had him start in the first place. Besides, what if he died before he got around to the truth and ended up in Hell for all eternity? I'd feel a lot worse about that.
We are called to spread the Word, to go into the world and make disciples of all nations, where better to start than at home?
God Bless
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eileenleyva (797) | 4 months ago | That actually means you would not want the children to venture more into other religions. They could probably encounter the teachings in the academe as course requirements. But to study and explore the ideals, that would have been risky. I would not have allowed it, too. I am the adult and I should know better. There is no proviso for me. I know what is best and the children have no choice but to obey (4th commandment). The choices in life can be made about some other things but never the faith.
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8. constaanta (446) | 5 months ago | I would appreciate if they would study other religions. When I was in the mentioned age my Roman Catholic church dominated all my religious understandings, but didn't give me real answers. Nowadays my children learn "ethics" at school instead of "Roman Catholic lessons". But they don't really take advantage of this broader spectrum; focus goes to the materialistic aspects of this world rather than the spiritual mission in life.
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eileenleyva (797) | 5 months ago | Hi constaanta. Ethics blend well with some of the religions ever propagated. That dwells on human code of conduct.
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| 9. rjackson (23) | 5 months ago | Rather you allow them to are not, kids will be kids. It's not what they do when they are around you that gets them in trouble, but what they do when you are not around. The Bible says train up a child in the way that he should go and he will not depart. This is so true, I grew up going to a Pentecostal church, I have studied other things in the past, but the{ebntecostal way sticks in my head. It's ok for them to stidy other things, because it maybe God's way of putting a person that knows the way, into a lost church, it may be a saviour in the midst.
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10. rayapol (15)  | 5 months ago | Yes, its always be a part of there growing to study more about religion. It is just like learning history when you explore to study religions. It is better then for them to study but you we have to guide them.
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