How will you know that you're old/mature enough to get married?

@sexyposh (575)
Philippines
July 25, 2009 9:08am CST
Good Day MyLotters! I just thought of the topic... How will you know that you're at the right age or maturity level to get married? What my mother taught me you have to be physically, emotionally, financially, and spiritually ready.. If me and my future husband achieve this then everything will fall into places accordingly. As you follow the trend, 25 years ago the average age to get married was 25 years old. Now, age of getting married is on the latter part.. I'm 27 now, and thinking if ever I did get married when I was 25, I'd pity my husband. Maybe because I was not that mature enough to be for a lifetime commitment. Honestly, upto now I still feel I'm not as good as my mom, thinking about that I'm getting married next year. Anyway, to my fellow MyLotters (especially those who are married), how did you know that you are ready? Really, thanks in advance to those who leave comments!
1 response
• Denmark
25 Jul 09
I am young, and not really ready to get married, and that is just a feeling. I guess the feeling will change someday. I had a feeling when I was ready to date - when I was ready to kiss and everything like that.. it just comes naturally. When you feel like ready to marry - and your guy too - the times is there :D For some is it when fifty some is it twenty.. it does not matter - what matters is LOVE :D