are you selfish

Hi there!

Well, it is not good to be selfish all the time although there are times when you just need to. I can say that I am not selfish because I do not live and think only for myself because I have my family whom I really love and I'm willing to sacrifice everything that I have for them including my life.

I am selfish to a point. Being raised as a only child helped that,Now I have a hubby who would buy me the world for my happiness. I try not to be its just not practical and causes hard feelings in the end. So I think its a terrible trait that,I am still trying to kick.

I think it is not bad to be a little bit selfish sometimes. The thing is when we are selfish, we tend to maximize our gain which is a force to push us do better. Now, if our selfishness means to harm others, then it is a bad idea as it turns out that many more times, we lose more than we gain.