advice for living aplenty ,no advice on dying  

Dying is considered to be negative. Hence, majority of the people don't like to talk about dying. So, there might not be any advice on dying.

"'Death' is the greatest enigma in life. It has baffled humankind from times out of mind. And yet despite all attempts to solve the mystery, it has remained as mysterious as ever before.

The Saints of the highest order - Sant Satgurus, or the Perfect Masters - who come down from the region of deathlessness and are ever in tune with the Infinite, know the shadowy character of death. They teach us that death is not what it seems. It is a joyous birth (born again) into a life more beatific than we ever dreamed of here. It is just as sun sets on this side of the globe and rises in the other part. They point out and demonstrate to us the way to conquer the seemingly invincible and terrifying death and thus become fear-free. This is the grand lesson that we can get from the Saints. They assure us that we do not die - we simply shake off physical vesture of body to work in other bodies: physical or astral or causal; and ultimately rise to realise our divine nature and see oneness in God - the All-consciousness and bliss. "

I quote this saying from the Author's Preface of the book < The Mystery of Death >by Sant Kirpal Singh. If you are interested to read the whole book, please go to :

www.ruhanisatsangusa.org/mod/mod_title.htm

as you have said nobody wants to die cheaply after they have been born but no one realises how difficult to live in this worldly stup.it is not easy. but understand that you if you were not born, you will not have to die.but after being born there is not much way around. we have no option but try to live sas long as possible. still we do not know how our body functions. for instance everyone talks so easily about heart attacks and how to prevent it by using diet control measures but still many ddie of heart attack every year. why is it so .it is because no one has really done done reseach into how heart attacks occur. so ,in future there will be more heart attacks occurring everywhere . watch out.
so we are caught iin a dilema. it is okay that you speak about life and death but you as a human being is tesponsible for this dilema. it is because you have not adopted birth control measures wholly and now are facing the music. now ,where can you go ? nowhere .there is no escape from life and death . you have to face the music.if you die , then better opt for heaven , as it will be free of troubles for you.the world is rich ,with its seas , water and icy mountains. better spare them and bunk off to heaven as it will be even more wonderful.