It's time for men to make comments...why do some women cheat?
By Jane
@jaiho2009 (39140)
Philippines
July 30, 2009 11:09am CST
If we ever noticed,most questions were being asked:
why does(some) men cheats?
how many times he cheated you?
my boyfriend cheated me
i saw my bestfriend's boyfriend kissing or hugging or being with another girl.
boys,men,guys,...always them or...most of them sounds like that.
But the truth is,there are also girls,gals,women that cheat/cheated and having affairs with other men.
Now,what do you think the reason(s)why these (some)women cheat(s)?
3 responses
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
30 Jul 09
hi jaiho...i am also thinking this right now...
well it just so happen that something like this happen to one person that i know...
the husband told me that his wife cheats on him...he was working abroad and news came to him that his wife is sleeping with another guy! oh no!
he was so upset upon knowing that and he's really mad that he can't accept that his ife is capable of doing that...
now i am thinking what pushes her to do so...and here are the things i think is the possible reason...
maybe she miss her husband so much...and women who are far from their husbands are more prone and weaker on temptations...(at least in her case)
she still have some grudge in her heart for her husband coz he also cheats on her before...and she just find it out few months ago after so long...so maybe she's angry and want revenge or to get even...
and few months before her husband started to skip sending them monthly allowance for the needs of their children...
she's so lonely and she don't get along and don't get any support from he mother in law...
i feel bad about what she have done but i can't judge her for i do not really know what's happening between her and her husband when they are alone in their house...
its just that i am sad that it looks like their marriage is going to trash...coz the husband is really mad! and it makes me think again...why is it like this...\
when men cheats...they expect us to forgive them easily and they will say that its just okay for they are just "men" but when woman commits this sin...well it looks like its very unforgivable ans seems like its the end of the world for them...
he was so upset upon knowing that and he's really mad that he can't accept that his ife is capable of doing that...
now i am thinking what pushes her to do so...and here are the things i think is the possible reason...
maybe she miss her husband so much...and women who are far from their husbands are more prone and weaker on temptations...(at least in her case)
she still have some grudge in her heart for her husband coz he also cheats on her before...and she just find it out few months ago after so long...so maybe she's angry and want revenge or to get even...
and few months before her husband started to skip sending them monthly allowance for the needs of their children...
she's so lonely and she don't get along and don't get any support from he mother in law...
i feel bad about what she have done but i can't judge her for i do not really know what's happening between her and her husband when they are alone in their house...
its just that i am sad that it looks like their marriage is going to trash...coz the husband is really mad! and it makes me think again...why is it like this...\
when men cheats...they expect us to forgive them easily and they will say that its just okay for they are just "men" but when woman commits this sin...well it looks like its very unforgivable ans seems like its the end of the world for them...@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
30 Jul 09
Hello my friend,
PRECISELY...why it is easier for men to commit such mistakes,and make it sounds like a murder when it is the woman who did it?( i guess that's another good discussion to start with )
You pointed some reason and maybe you were right.And it is really hard to conclude not unless we are on her shoes.It is always easy for people to judge,and more judgement will surely be negative,but if we only open our minds and tried to understand her situation,maybe we can say " she has the right to do it ".
Yes,the society's very biased with this case.And i myself don't agree with it.It's not becoz i am a woman,but becoz,we are also humans.If men were hurt when their wife cheated them,we also feel devastated when our husbands cheated us.They must understand it.(oh,i talked too much,hehehe i can't wait for others to make their comments too 
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Thank you so much for sharing this my friend,and have a good time always
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Thank you so much for sharing this my friend,and have a good time always@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
30 Jul 09
yes you are right...men should understand also the feeling of women and be fair enough...
and i think we women deserve fair treatment in the society...i think no one have the right to condemn anyone...whatever happens to her life, there must be a reason for that...and whatever that reason is...only she does know...
maybe you should start discussion about that...coz i also want to know why is it like that...hehhe
@cwong77 (2010)
• Malaysia
31 Jul 09
man and woman are both human, and human have lust... we can't find out why man cheat, so do the same for woman. We will not be able to identify the reason, but most probably like man, we woman cheat for the same reason too... It's coz of lust, greed that make someone started to cheat..
@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
31 Jul 09
Hello cwong,
We really never know why and what are there reasons dear.But,surely is,it has some reason why some men and women cheat(s).
Thanks for always coming with your responce dear.
Have a good weekend ahead
@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
31 Jul 09
Hello aurerm,
You said,you saw it happens,then,it's the reason why she cheats.
Thanks for sharing,have a good day
