Why is it so hurt to love?

thank you my friend, i see we came from same place. i ask one personal things, have you earn some from this site?

yeah very hurt for loving someone even you not expect to be but it really hurt you so much and that hurt was getting deeper and deeper time by time. I am very depress to realize that i am being unfair to myself somehow i didn't able to notice i was look weird by just following my love one and i just follow and follow until i notice while i following my love one i get lost my own way and getting nothing. it hurts but it is the only thing can make me alive, happy, and meaningful in my life.

yeah allow them to destroy our innocent heart that nothing to do except loving them with all of our heart. I love with my all but i get hurt more than i can, i really happy that you share to me your idea about TRUE LOVE but i was very amaze the line from you "you are allowing them to destroy it. " it makes me realize some reasonable why i have to keep on moving with my hurt love. thanks you so much.

i agree to you, but its very more hurt to see your love one with another one. But its unfair both of you if you allow your love one to love you more than you love them back, i have very open minded with your idea i agree with it if i am already HARD mind and heart to do that to myself. Yeah i avoid to get hurt but i cant leave my love one and let them with another coz i cant sure if their new one will care, love and respect them the way i do that why i cant let them to be with other if i cant sure they cant defeat the way i love.