Would you forgive your spouse if the commit infidelity?  

The reason I asked this becoz I just so confused on how women's think. I have this friend whom been married for 9 years or so. They were happy couple for what i seen. But recently she found out that her husband cheated on her. This happened, becoz out of nowhere she receive a call from a woman that her husband having affair with. Confronted with her husband, she got more shocking news to know that this wasnt the 1st time. Her husband confessed that he had been infidel for 4 times already. But he insisted that he had never serious with all the girls. He just fooling around.

Now, my friend came to me to ask men's perspective in it. I said, it is a sickness. Don't expect her husband to be cured from it. It is nothing close to bad habit. It is a character build in.

I thought, she would leave him for sure. But couple days back, it is my return to shock! She forgive him! And now they were trying to get through all the rough days and wish that they will have strong marriage again.

Cmon! This is so typical. A woman accept their husband mistake, in wishful thinking that her husband might change one day.

I am a man, i know that we dont just change our character in minutes. It is my belief that one day her husband will do all over again. Worse, he might learn the mistake for not letting her wife finding out next time.

So, what do u think? Am i being too skeptical to say that it is almost impossible for a man like this really settling down? What would u do, if your spouse committed infidelity, would u also forgive them? Give me ur honest opinion on this! Thanks.