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myLot reputation of 97/100. hdjohnson (1220)   ranked 46 out of 19,253 in questions & answers 3 years ago

I have to wear a shirt and tie to work everyday, it's not my preferred choice, but sometimes you have to do things you don't want to do in order to get things you don't have, but want to get, right?

Anyway, well over the years, my wardrobe has changed drastically. Before I got married, I used to have lots of jeans, sweatsuits and short combination outfits. Now that I'm married, I have more suits, and dress shirts and dress pants. A lot of times when it's casual day at our job, meaning you can wear jeans. I discovered that I don't even own one (1) pair of jeans anymore. So I just wear a polo shirt and some casual khakis.

Sorry about the rabbit trail, back to the subject. Whenever I am out and about like at the local grocery store or malls. This happens rather frequent which is why I bring it up. Other customers will look at me in an aisle and ask me, where is such and such as though I am one of the managers in that particular business. It used to annoy me after a while, I had gotten used to it and now it's simply water off a duck's back. So instead of dressing up for halloween as BATMAN or SUPERMAN, and get to dress up everyday as business manager of whatever establishment I am away from home.

Why is that? Does my shirt and tie make others think that I have some super authority to help them in whatever dilemma they have gotten themselves into? Or do I have a hidden sign over my forehead that broadcasts "ask him, he can help?"

I was really wondering about this today, so I decided to write up a post, to get some of my friends responses; what do you say?

 

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tags:  authority, bearing and attitude, dress shirt tie treatment, in most cases, shirt
 
1. myLot reputation of 87/100. fwidman (5652)   ranked 1,287 out of 19,253 in questions & answers   3 years ago

A suit and a tie do garner some respect from others, yes. As for the stores and such, perhaps they think you are the manager and can help them. Sometimes it may just be the look on your face, confident and serious that makes people think you work there and can help them happy


myLot reputation of 97/100. hdjohnson (1220)   ranked 46 out of 19,253 in questions & answers  3 years ago

Wow, thanks for the compliment. I appreciate it and didn't really think of it in that manner. I normally carry a rather serious look on my face, so I can see how that can be considered as confidence, LoL! lol

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2. myLot reputation of 75/100. kakapila (608)   3 years ago

yes it gives you a perfect gentleman look with tie and shirt. personality matter everywhere


myLot reputation of 97/100. hdjohnson (1220)   ranked 46 out of 19,253 in questions & answers  3 years ago

I am a gentleman so thanks.

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3. myLot reputation of 86/100. KarissaAngel (264)   ranked 1,898 out of 19,253 in questions & answers   3 years ago

Personally I like a guy in a shirt, tie and slacks. But to the discussion, appearance is the issue, and yes, like another post above me, you must show some kind of confidence you are putting out there.

For respect, well yes, you will dressed that way, just like women do when they wear a dress and high heels.

Not sure why you had to get rid of your jeans or you don't just go and buy a pair, but that is up to you. Wearing a polo shirt with khaki's is fine too for casual wear.

As far as for halloween, go as Superman, it is obvious you get a lot of respect.

SMILES


myLot reputation of 97/100. hdjohnson (1220)   ranked 46 out of 19,253 in questions & answers  3 years ago

ROFL @ As far as for halloween, go as Superman, it is obvious you get a lot of respect. SMILES

I really don't know what happened to my jeans either. I really don't miss them though. I take the superman idea into consideration, I already have a t-shirt that my kids bought me entitled "SUPER DAD."

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4. myLot reputation of 99/100. GardenGerty (35291)   ranked 54 out of 19,253 in questions & answers   3 years ago

I say you have an attitude and bearing that commands respect, regardless of what you are wearing. They do not think the suitcan help them, but the person who looks self assured and like he knows what he is doing. I have the same thing happen to me in stores a lot, and I do not even have a dress uniform, so to speak. I have fewere casual clothes than many, but I am tending that way, as my job is pretty scaled down and casual. In fact, a polo is kind of dressy.

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5. testXXX (24)   ranked 10,623 out of 19,253 in questions & answers   3 years ago

It's not really just the suit and tie itself, but rather how you wear it. If you were wearing your tie loosened or your collar undone, I doubt people would mistake you for a manager. Mostly people would mistake you for a manager because normally nobody would wear a suit and tie as casual dress so they think that therefore, you must be at work and you must be a manager. It's not really that the clothing commands respect but more of the fact that most of the time people would not wear a suit and tie casually.

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6. myLot reputation of 96/100. ilovechocolate (1485)   ranked 146 out of 19,253 in questions & answers   3 years ago

I think suit and tie + personality command respect. Maybe you exude the aura of being a manager of some sort of business that's why people look at you that way.
When I was still doing my internship at Bangko Sentral, I always had to wear wardrobe,blazers and highheels and I noticed that people at the mall or other places treat me differently compared to the days I wear casual get up.

I've also noticed that people treat you with respect if you are appropriately made up.


myLot reputation of 97/100. hdjohnson (1220)   ranked 46 out of 19,253 in questions & answers  3 years ago

Did that make you feel that you should wear a shirt and tie more often, since you noticed that you were more respected by wearing that type of clothing?

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7. facefinder (9)   3 years ago

In most cases, yes. A shirt and tie does bring respect. Formal attire is something we didn't see for quite awhile. It doesn't just command respect, it also shows respect from the company you are dealing with and an employee's respect for the company he works for. It also brings out a "confidence" that is not normally there. And I think you should lighten up and consider Superman for halloween! If you have a fun, sarcastic sense of humor you could be the life of the party. Think of the jokes just putting your job and Superman together! You"ll have to get a tear away shirt and tie! Honestly, you could have a blast! (did I tell you I went to the University of I Know What You Need to Do) didn't think so. FaceFinder!

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8. sulaiziana (34)   3 years ago

good physical makes good impression..the good way you wear, the smarter you look. i like man who wear shirt and tie..they look very handsome and gentlemen.

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9. myLot reputation of 49/100. grundmang (108)   3 years ago

well indeed. we are programmed to judge someone by the way e looks. this guy is strong and that one is stupied and a tie makes people see you as someone they should respect....


myLot reputation of 97/100. hdjohnson (1220)   ranked 46 out of 19,253 in questions & answers  3 years ago

That's a interesting point of view. Thanks.

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10. myLot reputation of 67/100. smellytrampsfeet (100)   ranked 4,554 out of 19,253 in questions & answers   3 years ago

a shirt and tie to command respect while it does not deserve respect. it is the person in the clothes that should earn the respect. like the saying a wolf in sheeps clothing you cannot determine who a person is by what they are wearing

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