The truth hurts have you heard of this saying.

Hi jugs....I know the truth can hurt sometimes but if you don't tell the truth and lie aboout it ther was no since in saying anything. Sometimes people are so flustrated about the way their life is going and don't know whether to stay or go. I was in a marriage for 8 years and had 3 children during that time. He was a mental abuser and also a physical abuser. He would beat me in front of my kids and I felt so bad for them. Finally I got up enough courage to leave him and to tell you the truth I was packing things right under his nose and he didn't even notice I was taking the kids pictures down off the wall. It was the best thing I could have done...I am still in therapy becasue of this but I do feel better that it was him that had the problems and not me. Good Luck Jugs!!!!! flutterby

Sure I've heard of it. The truth can be painful if it isn't what we want to hear or when it's pointing out a mistake or a flaw. That's one reason why people tell little white lies so as not to hurt people they care about.

Yes, the truth defnitely hurts. But those hurts can heal, and in the long run the truth is always better.

Yes, the truth does sometimes hurt. What few people realize, is the truth can hurt the person saying, just as much as the person hearing it. No pain is ever really good, but in our pain we grow and learn. So there is always a lesson in it. I do sincerely hope that all turns out well for you, and remember, it all works out in the end, if it isn't working out, it's not the end. Cheers.