Would you touch a beggar?  | | Imagine you are approached by a homeless person. He asks for alms. You search for a coin and give it to the guy. While giving the money, if your hand touches the beggar's palm, would you:
Squirm, but think its ok. He is also human. Feel completely repulsed. Oh god, dunno if he has taken shower. Not bother. You touch so many things, cant get paranoid about such stuff
How would you react?:)
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| | | | | | | 1. aznbeast4life (77) | 5 months ago | I, myself, would just not bother. I like giving away money to the needy and the poor. I don't mind if I just have to touch their hand.
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tutor19us (328) | 5 months ago | Thanks a lot. I have seen people squirming and acting weird after they have touched a beggar accidentally. They seem to feel that the beggar, since he is homeless has a lot of germs or something on his person. It is not nice and you are also creating a lot of negative emotions in the person to whom you are giving alms. You must give alms with a lot of love. The genuineness comes through.
Thanks for sharing. Happy mylotting.:)
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| | 2. silverglint (1479) | 5 months ago | I would not intentionally touch the beggar, I would not intentionally avoid touching the person either. If I do touch her/his hands, then I would probably just wash my hands with soap or rub some alcohol in my hands. It's not about being disgusted with the person, beggars are still human beings. It's just a fact that their hands are dirty and naturally, if you knowingly touch something dirty, you wash your hands.
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tutor19us (328) | 5 months ago | Thanks silverglint. Yes, you are right. Probably that is also the correct thing to do. even if you come from outside, where you have touched door knobs, staircase rails, so many things, you wash your hands. So similarly, we can wash hands. It is a preventive attitude. You are right. And beggars do tend to be dirty and filthy due to their lifestyle.:)
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| | 3. daliaj (2746) | 5 months ago | It is human to take the hand of the person and express your sympathy towards him, but I have never done that. I have a feeling in mind that beggards don't keep themselves clean and there is a good possibility to get skin diseases by touching him. So, I never take the risk.
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| | 4. divkris (763) | 5 months ago | I'm generally against the habit of giving beggars arms. But this has happened to me many a times and I generally Squirm, but think its ok. "He is also human." But at times when the beggar is tooooo dirty i do feel completely repulsed and think "Oh god, dunno if he has taken shower."
Have you by any chance met beggars who touch you deliberately to make you feel uncomfortable? I have.
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| | 5. shantha_45 (206) | 5 months ago | Nice point for discussion. Usually i feel sympathy for any old aged beggar I feel sorry for all thr troubles he/she goes through. Even If I give them alms I would not touch them. Not because of disgust but for reason that they are not clean. But i give out something with sympathy Happy mylotting
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| | 6. JAG2009 (197) | 5 months ago | I'd love to pretend to be noble and say - what's the big deal, s/he is only human. But the fact of the matter is that i would, in all honesty, squirm, and wish it hadn't happened. I would reach for some wet wipes as quickly as possible and try and think of something positive to forget what just happened.
It makes me wonder, though.... what the beggar might be thinking.... of me...and the fact that s/he had to touch my hand! Am I disgusting as far as the beggar is concerned? When the beggar looks at me, I wonder how s/he sees me. Some weird creature with wires sticking out of my ears and a huge tote bag that looks too heavy for me and a cup of coffee that is threatening to spill over?
Who knows!
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