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Is it easy to fall in love when you are friends?  email this discussion to a friend?

sweetsatabdi (61)   ranked 1,823 out of 12,084 in friend 3 years ago

friendship and love are quite related according to me..one completes the other..but can you find love in your best friend or you think its better to fall in love and then make friends with that someone?i am sure there have been lots of instances when someone has fallen in love with a complete starnger and then got to know him/her and then frienship have bloomed with love but for some people maybe it has been their closest best friend with whom they have been forever before realising they are in love..so which one is it for you?which one works better according to you?

 

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1. myLot reputation of 95/100. rmorefield (896)   ranked 6,674 out of 12,084 in friend   3 years ago

I agree with you. I think you have to be friends with someone before you can love them. I don't mean the "stomach in the throat" feeling. That is infatuation. I'm talking about true love. I think that yes, you can find love in your best friend. My husband was my best friend before he was anything to me. The love came when I wasn't looking for it. One day I woke up and it just hit me. Now we have been together for 7 years and have 2 children together. He is still my best friend, but he is also the love of my life.


sweetsatabdi (61)   ranked 1,823 out of 12,084 in friend  3 years ago

thats so amazing to hear..hope you all the best in life..keep rocking


myLot reputation of 88/100. shankari_prabhu (154)   ranked 2,526 out of 12,084 in friend  3 years ago

Hi Rmorefield..........I have had a similar experience as you have. Its basic logic that if your husband cannot be a friend to you then he most definitely cannot be your husband. I think love is the next step to friendship and the marital bond remains strond due to the strength of friendship between the husband and wife.....

I cant really understand, how without understanding a person, one can proclaim love for that person...:-)

My guy will always remain my best friend, as he understands me best and that makes things much more beautiful between us!

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2. firyagni (18)   3 years ago

well it is not only easy but it is the main criteria to fall in love.friendship leads the way to love and it is necessary.unless people become friends they cant know each other,talk to each other properly nor can they know each others like and dislikes.so its very very important to first become friends and then start a deeper relationship


sweetsatabdi (61)   ranked 1,823 out of 12,084 in friend  3 years ago

thank you for responding..thank you so much..keep mylotting


myLot reputation of 99/100. joannaleed (6342)  3 years ago

Yes, I agree with you there Fryagni...

I do think it is more important. But there is some called love at first sight, right?? So, they are not friends before that but they actually become lovers without even becoming friends...

I think it just depend with the person.

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3. myLot reputation of 87/100. sujal0211 (129)   ranked 10,270 out of 12,084 in friend   3 years ago

If you think about what does the idea of a husband/wife or boyfriend/girlfriend entail? A guy who has gone beyond all other relationship statuses that you already know.If you share so much with your friend then it shouldn't be surprising that you have love for your friend.
The question is what type of love you have for him.You love him as a partner,close friend or brother/sister that you know of.
Some guys are great friends.I know a girl in my neighbourhood .She rely on me when she is in need.We have shared beds and nothing happened.We don't sleep together and we never have gone beyond an all too natural hug when greeting each other.
If this question is your case then do yourself and him/her a favour and talk about it.
Hope it goes well.
Keep myloting.

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4. myLot reputation of 92/100. thokius (255)   ranked 9,797 out of 12,084 in friend   3 years ago

Hello sweetsatabdi,
I think that being good friends with someone can help and can be a problem. In 52% of the situations you will fall in love but in the other 48% you'll get seperated. I'm not sure why though. Cheers!
Thok

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5. kidboy1988 (83)   ranked 3,075 out of 12,084 in friend   3 years ago

Friendship,I think, is the basement of LOVE. I ever asked a girl whether we could be lovers. She denied. Her reason was we were not friends, so we could not understand with each other. That's true. Impulse can sometimes make us feel regretful. According to me, before I decide to fall in love with someone, then friendship is necessary.

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6. myLot reputation of 65/100. penevyavor (171)   3 years ago

I think both work.
Its up to fate to diside
maybe you have to make the oder person bulive you trust him/her

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7. myLot reputation of 86/100. sathish2018 (446)   ranked 949 out of 12,084 in friend   3 years ago

Yes it is very easy to always fall in love but it always very hard to stay in love falling in lover is os easier and staying in the love is so diffcult, so it is always better not ot be love with someone anyways stay out of love stay out of danger,love is beautiful but it can hurt you much more than you think it... in friendshipo love cannot be os much trusted many of them 5have mnay chrachtersw it i always easy to fall in love but it very hard to stay in the love.

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8. shinokyoku (43)   3 years ago

well, I agree that friendship comes first, because it bonds each other in a relationship, although it's not sure that you'll fallen for your best friend, but I think the bonds within will develop anyways, because we've shared memories and emotion together with him/her, our precious times, LoL
but in my case, I've fallen first that befriend with her, -_-

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9. lovefei (17)   3 years ago

Once i had a very close friend.We tall everything each other.One day i found i felt more sensation except the friendship.Infact i liked her.So i tried many ways to conver friends to lovers.But finally i failed!We were friends too long.
If you really wnat to be fall in love with somebody.You must catch the opportunity which you are familiar .Finding a good day and having good preparation and have a date .If your rationship goes futher you will be true friends.

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10. myLot reputation of 80/100. jazzbabe (115)   3 years ago

I'd have to say friendship first before getting deeper.
My present and my previous relationships went this way and
I guess it wouldn't have been much better if we had it the other way around.
I believe before entering in a certain relationship, both partners should know
each other first (and this pretty much happens within friendship) before you go to the more serious relationship.;)

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